I don't know if I should be worrie or concerned by the fact my best friend spends a ton of time…

Ooh that is tough. Who initiates the hangouts? Is she single?

very concerned

hmm girl open your eyes...

Tons of time doing what?

@missliss, yes she is single :/

@bianca_rose, just hanging out at my house

I would be worried love 😕

@missliss, I want to give him the benefit of the doubt and know I can trust him...just seems off to me dont you think? She came over around 3 when he got home from work..I don't get home till 530...then I left for school and she left 10 minutes before I got him...just weird...

@sharonpaige13, I totally understand. You trust him and love him and want him to feel that way. But I wouldn't trust her. Can you give me a little more info? Like how long have you been friends? How often do you and she hang out the two of you? How does your fiancé feel about her spending lots of time with him? Men are really naive, he probably does it because he loves you and wants to be involved in a friendship with your best friend because he knows she's important to you. But the thing is she could be flirty and he might think she's just being nice. Men tend to confuse flirting with kindness. It just seems really off that she wouldn't just be there when you are there and leave when you leave. She could be using your friendship to get to him

@missliss, we have been friends since junior high so about 9 years now....and we usually hang out a few times a day....and when I got home from school tonight I asked him about it and he said she's just chills and everything and he usually takes care of our son...but he is pretty blind when it comes to flirting...just not comfortable with the fact she stays here when I'm gone!! And as much as I don't want to say anything bad about her but she does get around with a lot of guys and that's why Im worrie s

@sharonpaige13, yea I would worry ☹️️ I'm so sorry, I know that's probably really hard to hear. There is no reason that she should be over there without you. It just doesn't really make any sense. And it's a bit disrespectful on her part

@missliss, it's okay not your fault and thanks for the honest opinion! I appreciate it! And right I agree it is disrespectful!

@sharonpaige13, no problem 😊 if you ever need to talk or need advice I'm always here ❤️