In between me and my bd troubles, I had our son so its been put on the back burner...we still have…

In between me and my bd troubles, I had our son so its been put on the back burner...we still have to have a sit down and actually talk, before that next step... got an unexpected check yesterday so deposit it into my savings to start saving for our apartment....Glad we can't do anything for awhile so he can't hush me up with the D..lol..y'all know how these men are, they put it on us and we don't say nothing else afterwards...real baby boy type shyt. either way me and my 2 boys still moving...a real mom stay with the cash in the clutch purse...