So I had my first doctors appointement Monday well I'm glad I went because I just found out I have chlamydia and that my…

girl i been thru this in may.. i got infected as well. if i never got it i wouldn't knew he had cheated on me. if i wasnt pregnant i wouldnt know anything.. i feel ur pain.. he was living in maryland.. n he cried n all that saying he is sorry. then ge move to jersey now.. saying he is a change man n blah blah blah.. now wd both live together. i will never trust him. i can forgive but i cant forget.

Not that is matters but chlamydia is not likely to be transmitted orally. It is from anal or vaginal intercourse. Idk about anyone else cheaters bank on you saying everything you are saying right now because they can play and you will always stay. no consequences and the person who suffers is you. You think he is depressed about giving you an std and possibly could have infected your child. No. But you are beating yourself up about something you didn't deserve. You are better than that.

Tell me about it's so sad they don't even stop and think that they could be bringing something home to their girlfriends and the fact that we been living together for years and after he got head from that girl he came home and laid in bed wit me then they wonder why our trust so messed up and why we have our insecurities I can't even forgive because it took the doctors to tell me for him to man up and tell me everything all I know is im getting check every 6months cause I read if it would of gone untreated it could of messed up my chances of ever having babies again@neikadre

I keep asking him did he have sex and he says no was just head i definitely feel like it was more but he won't say it my mom always says the problem is with the person that cheats not you but I just don't understand what's so hard about being faithful I could understand if I was a bad gf but I'm not he hasn't even went to the hospital yet it's like he doesn't care he's walking around with that shit @2queenbee9

girl am telling u.. i aint trust him anymore.

He knows I don't trust his ass either even though he stays home wit me everyday he only goes over his dad's house on the weekend I still have my doubts @neikadre

Unless she is walking around holding std covered semen in her mouth waiting on a victim, it is unprotected sex with a female. Not saying it isn't possible, just very very unlikely. Don't believe that and either way cheating is cheating no matter what you do. All I can say is get out of there. If he is will to give you that then what else are you waiting for. Don't wait to get something that will kill you. real talk

girlllllllll am like this.. well my man dont have anyone in jersey. so thats the good thing. all he does now is work and come home.. so lets see.. i told is ass ge better glad am pregnant because i wouldnt just let it rest like that..

he was down in ma ass about cheating while i wasnt doing shit. n he was the one doing his shit.. while pointing fingers

Yes yes that's how it always is lol they blame you for the stuff there doing like why can you cheat and I keep giving yo ass chances but if I cheat yo ass gone up and leave wanting to know who they guy is and everything like boy gone my fiancé already knew I was gone beat his ass if he told me he did that shit in person that's why he left and was texting me about it like don't think cause I'm pregnant I won't hit you lol @neikadre

You right @2queenbee9 this is definitely my sign things might not change how I want them to

girllllllll am telling u.. these men..