I hate how my Mil uses the excuse she is just a little girl... Her 4 year old daughter gets my food…

That's just a poor excuse for " I don't discipline my child." Wth is wrong with her? Her child's going to grow up thinking she can do whatever she wants with no consequences.

exactly what I told my husband that it's not ok.. your mom needs to step up but the little girl tell us I can do whatever I want yup she sure can...all his mom said was ewwww that's nasty.. she didn't even buy me a new one my husband told her to replace my toothbrush but there she goes she is just a child I know bunch of little kids who would never do that and know better she can't handle her my Mil does not work and sends her child to head start from 8:30am to 4:00pm Monday thru Friday since she was 3 @sarisings

I've dealt with that when I lived with my mom... I'm the eldest of 6 and my siblings had no boundaries. They would use my tooth brush, touch my stuff and I would tell my mom and nothing would be done. I know if someone ruined her stuff she would want someone to pay for it, but the other way around she won't offer to pay for my stuff. People can be such hypocrites. I hope things get better for your sanity... 😔