So we've been staying with my SO parents while our house gets remodeled and fixed up...our kitchen…
So we've been staying with my SO parents while our house gets remodeled and fixed up...our kitchen roof collapsed inside and we had little fury creatures finding there way into the house. I came outside to put my oldest on the bus and see a note inside my SO car. His mama wrote saying she needs to talk to us about paying (her) rent. Ummm I understand we are in her house currently but how does she just decide to say we need to pay her rent when we have to pay for the fixtures, our house payment, and daycare. This is a woman that makes good money along with her husband forced us to put our 2yo in daycare..offered to pay that now all of a sudden she is behind in her bills and daycare is too expensive. It bothers me bc nobody asked her to pay daycare especially when I'm at home. She gets a 2016 car but can't afford her other bills. We only moved here bc we can't stay in the house with the roof caved in...we still pay our bills but now she wants us to pay hers too. Sorry but I'm not sorry when I tell her none of my check will be handed over to her. She can talk to get son but I have obligations and responsibilities already and they don't go away just bc I'm stressed and others have their hands out. I'm not with his family and their foolery. I'll stay in the house by myself if I have to. You can't just have us move in and not discuss "rules or expectations" later on down the line. Makes me so irritated...
☆♡•Mu£att○Muva•♡☆·
Мама троих детей
@junesmommy_15, yes I try to understand but I can't see where she's struggling. She constantly is buying home decor, clothes, going to fancy places, driving alot...now all of a sudden she has a problem with daycare even after I told her I was fine to watch the baby and my toddler after my csection a month later. I only agreed bc I rather have my child in a learning enviroment with other kids and toys, I can't do thay at home with the baby and it's tougher bc I would get no sleep since she doesn't take naps unless she passes out. I'm not upset by your post bc you're right but I know she's a tick for tack kind of person and its really annoying. She started getting like this bc a week before my csection she asked me to adopt my oldest daughter and I refused.