@jeanetta25, I'm trying...I feel so bad for him... I wish I could get him help... hell I'd allow him to get home visits in MY home

well thats sad because he sounds he could benefit from some professional help and shes hurting his growth by not taking him to get checked. hes going to have a hard time when he starts preschool . maybe shes embarrssed or in denial about him needing alil help ? i know as a mother she has to care. maybe you could continue to point out little things here and there to help her help him @mama.of.3.

@jeanetta25, I told her to talk to his dr about speech and she just won't do it... I talked to my Dr for my daughter and she goes to speech therapy every Friday nd loves it.

@deebee, rocking isnt a sign of neglect all the time some kkds rock back and forth hard in the chair or couches just because if comforts them all my little cousins did that and they were well taken care of just like sucking your thumb . but it should be brought up to a physician because sometimes it can mean a mental issue . if this child has learning problems bad behavior and etc he may need to be checked out sound like he may have some learning disabilities and if hes been hit on with previous sitters doesnt help him at all thatll cause him to act out more or shut dowm . hes lucky to have you !! but you need to talk to his parents about him getting tested !! @mama.of.3.

@deebee, I don't think so....but it's just sad... I don't know if I've got the patients to raise another kid that not mine on top of my 2 month old.... but I also don't want him going anywhere else in fear he'd get hurt again.. my mom says I have a good heart bc I'm concerned and am doing this for his own good...he needs a chance to learn how to behave correctly... he acts out a lot.. I know his mom doesn't discipline him... so he gets away with everything. I know he feels comfortable with me bc hell fall asleep in me.

😕☹️️😧😢 You don't think it from things he's exposed to at home?

@deebee, It's awful... he just came from a sitter that hit him.... now he's with me... I'm trying to teach him right from wrong...it's gunna be a hard process

The rocking is a sign of neglect. That's very sad.