Am I being horrible but I don't want a lot of visitors when I'm in hospital. My sister in law is…
Am I being horrible but I don't want a lot of visitors when I'm in hospital. My sister in law is round she's 14 and abit annoying but she said she be up everyday after school. I don't want it. I want time with my baby maybe when we're home yeah but it's going to be emotional time as my mum and dad are both in heaven and I could do with my mum right now as she was there when I had my daughter. Am I a horrible person like my husband says I am 😞😞😞 when she goes I'm going to cry my eyes out
sarah·
Мама сына (2 года), беременна (27 нед.)
No kids unless they're you're own are aloud to visit the maternity ward and you're only aloud 3 at a time so just tell people you'll let them know when you're settled at home enough for visitors, that's what I do x
Caron·
Мама дочки (5 лет), беременна (38 нед.)
My husband won't understand though he won't listen to me 😞 @mummyto1soon2be2
Stacey Marie·
Like @mummyto1soon2be2 said they have to be your own kids to be allowed in if they are under 16 xx
Caron·
Мама дочки (5 лет), беременна (38 нед.)
Thank god!! Think my hormones have kicked in. I rather wait till I'm home to see everyone but then again be nice to have just lovely time with my husband and my daughter and the baby. Oh I don't know mixed emotions @stacey804 @mummyto1soon2be2
Stacey Marie·
Yeah it's hard at first. To be honest I felt like you but then I got kept in hospital for 5 days and was glad for people to visit as I felt so lonely and lost. Obviously just family but was horrible on my own, I was on bed rest for the first 24 hours and it killed me unable to pick my baby up but my mam and partner were there to help thankfully. You'll know what's right for you and baby when the time comes xx
Caron·
Мама дочки (5 лет), беременна (38 нед.)
I think it's because my parents won't be around I'm finding it really hard as it's getting closer. I might be different when he's here. I can't stop crying as they called me a horrible person 😞 @stacey804
Stacey Marie·
Men react in different ways. They don't understand like us. It's us going through the trauma. Don't be to harsh on him, he'll be excited to show the baby off and doesn't understand the other side but he will! Xx
Caron·
Мама дочки (5 лет), беременна (38 нед.)
Think I just need to sit down with him and talk to him on how I feel. We can talk about anything. Thanks @stacey804
Stacey Marie·
Best way (: I had to with my oh. He didn't understand at all xx
Stacey Marie·
Best way (: I had to with my oh. He didn't understand at all xx