babies cause alot of stress between couples. make time for each other. don't forget why you got married to begin with. once you become a mom it's hard to figure out how to be a mom and wife and the same goes for dads. have a night out together. take time to reconnect. don't throw away your marriage over a bump in the road. marriage is full of them. that's why it takes work. I don't know many mom's who at some point haven't felt that way. I have. I have friends who have. my sister even has as well. but that doesn't mean throw it all away. first of try to reconnect. if you can't then maybe counseling. if not then go your separate ways. it's not fair to rob your kids of a 2 parent household but it's not fair to make their lives hell just to stay together either.