Question. I am in charge of mine and my boyfriends finances. I generally allocate a certain amount…
Question. I am in charge of mine and my boyfriends finances. I generally allocate a certain amount for him to party each pay day. It seems like every time I do this, he goes behind my back and takes more money. not enough to screw us over but it still kind of hurts that he goes behind my back and doesn't tell me until after its gone. What should I do?
Jessie·
Мама двоих (4 года, 6 лет), ждёт третьего
Confront him. Ask him why he does it. Don't be mad but ask him if he thinks his allowance is not enough.
Nicole Matthews·
tall to him about it. if that doesn't work then hide it. if he wants to act like a child he can be treated like one.
Nicole Matthews·
talk*
Rikki·
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@housfullofgrls, I will ask him when he gets up. I'm not really mad to begin with. we had such good communication except for when it comes to this apparently
Ely·
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To party? To party with you I'm guessing
Rikki·
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@green_smilezz, no I can't party because I'm pregnant. I'm talking about going out with friends and partying.
t·
Мама подростков
Well if he is going to take it then don't give him anything
Ely·
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Oh well . Thanks God my husband and I like the same stuff. Anyway , talk to him because he shouldn't be hiding stuff from you, don't get upset just try to tell him not to go behind your back hun . I don't think he would like if you do the same to him😚
Rikki·
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@green_smilezz, we do like the same things its just I can't do those things right now lol. but you're right i will have a nice calm talk with him
Ely·
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Yes that's best. Good luck hun