I love my mother & mother in law but they are both getting on my nerves when it comes to…
I love my mother & mother in law but they are both getting on my nerves when it comes to disciplining my child. They literally have a fit if I yell at my own child or hit her. Then my mother in law says "grandparents are here to spoil their grand babies and send them home so the parent can deal with it" I went off on her "I said if that's the case you can keep her bad ass then. I will no longer send her over if you continue to spoil her to the point she comes home and doesn't know how to act" so my mom and mother in law are on grand baby probation. If they can't abide by our rules for our child and respect our rules there will be consequences.
deleted-user·
girl me and my dad aren't speaking for the same reasons. he doesn't feel like I should spank or yell at my children or get on to them at all. anytime I so In front of him he says something. he's mad they aren't allowed at his house but it's cuz he's disabled so is his wife they're house isn't clean and he doesn't watch the kids and enforce my rules that and he's mad cuz I won't loan him money anymore but they're mine and my husband's kids and they aren't abused they're disciplined. they know right from wrong and have sense and they will use it at my house.
Kia·
В ожидании первенца
and its nothing wrong with you for feeling that way , thas ridiculous they need to respect what you are saying and dont spoil her because in the end its your child and your going to have to deal with her tantrums not them ! So not fair , I agree with it
Amanda·
Мама дочки (1 год), беременна (39 нед.)
@kiaaaaj, girl it's been bad lately like really bad. And my daughter is no dummy so she takes advantage of it too. I'm pregnant and having to deal with my daughters temper tantrums seriously gives me anxiety I'm stressed out
Kia·
В ожидании первенца
@amaperalta03 Smh and see you dont need that stress right now or let alone at all !!!! They need to respect what you are saying or like you said don't see them or keep her , let her deal with it . You do not need that added stress
Amanda·
Мама дочки (1 год), беременна (39 нед.)
@kiaaaaj, yes and I don't want it to get to the point where there is problems. My baby girl loves both her Grandma's but I will keep her from them if they don't stop. And my man Agrees
Geovonna·
Yeah my grandmother was like thT my brother is 7 now and he's out of control . My gma and I went to GA to stay w my mom last week . His teacher called as soon as he got to school he was acting out . He knows when my gma is there he can't get in trouble . She spoils him bad n gets mad when my parents discipline him . It's been like that from young
Sari·
Мама дочки (6 лет), беременна (38 нед.)
At least your man is on your side, I can't imagine how mine is going to be. His mom just let's his sister do whatever she eants, she is so spoiled and has no respect... I'm very firm when I comes to children so I hope she doesn't think she's going to let my son do whatever he wants because he's her first grandchild. She will be on probation too. Idc.
Amanda·
Мама дочки (1 год), беременна (39 нед.)
@sarinunez, I seriously hope you won't have to go through what I go through. It's so stressful!!
Sidika·
Мама сына (1 год), беременна (30 нед.)
that's exactly how I feel. if they want to hype him up and give him sugar and stuff, they can keep him another day. i don't ask for much but I ask them to at least let me know what they feed him so if he has an allergic reaction, I know what it's possibly to. they always try several new foods at a time because they only have him for a couple of days. and discipline is whatever the parent wants. if you aren't abusing your kid who has the right to say you can't do that. I'm sorry don't yell at kids? that teaches them they can walk over you.