My daughter is not a fan of giving me much time to use both of hands at the same time. Where are you in Ca? I was there for three years in the Camarillo/Ventura area.
Hi! I'm a Mother of 1, and I currently live in California and all of my family and friends are in New York. For me, what works best, is reading and writing. It always calms me and soothes my thoughts a bit. It drifts me away from the idea that I'm lonely. Also if you're in a relationship, spending as much time together as possible, always makes a difference.