I know some people get their peace or therapeutic release by talking about what happens to them. Thats's wonderful.
I know some people get their peace or therapeutic release by talking about what happens to them. Thats's wonderful.
I don't get my peace that way. I don't want to relive Camiyha's passing over and over. I speak of her, but I don't like to rehash, repeatedly, what happened. AND I WON'T! That doesn't make me cold. That just means I know what I can and cant handle, what helps my healing and what does not. I do not want eyes on me or attention simply because we lost a kid. I won't constantly talk about her, but I WILL constantly and consistently do things to honor the time we got with her.
Shawna Santistevan·
You're strong mama. Keep on keeping on and do you! ❤️
missing225user·
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@santistevanmommie, thank you, my love! People seem to forget that 5 of my 7 kids came by tragedy!!! I love them to no end but I prefer to be in the present moment with them. The kids and Camiyha's memory are MINE, not really for public discussion or consumption, and I guard that very fiercely.😔
Hannah Clark·
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💖💖💖
Marisa Coulter·
Grief is meant to be a very private thing. Keep being the strong mama that you are!
Shawna Santistevan·
You're right. And her memory shouldn't be hard for you to think about and people shouldn't make you talk about it when you don't want to! Your babies love you and every one of them are so lucky to have you. There's no doubt in my mind that they cherish you for everything you do for them
missing225user·
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@katarama @marisaeileen @santistevanmommie thank you all. We speak of her often, in love. We just don't want the extra eyes. Church made me so upset today. 😔 I don't like being put on the spot