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Finally confronted my fiance about his video game habits. I had asked him to help with dinner since im not feeling well.…

Finally confronted my fiance about his video game habits. I had asked him to help with dinner since im not feeling well. He walked out to the kitchen with me and took the meat out of the freezer to thaw and tried to go back to the computer. I reminded him there were other things to prep and he huffed at me saying he didnt want to deal with dinner tonight. This is the first time ive asked him to help me with dinner in a long time and he says he loves cooking. He also had a short 5 hour shift today and i KNOW he got plenty of sleep last night. He claimed that he needed to go wind down. Its now 4 hours later, meat is thawed and ready to go and I couldnt get him off his stupid video game. He told me he was winding down and that hed do it soon. I got irritated because he had asked to have a me and him night but not only will he not help me with dinner, he hasnt said a single word to me for 4 hours now and when he does speak hes giving me attitude. So i confronted him about his game addiction. He plays on average 4 to 6 hours, expects me to serve him dinner while he plays and then plays till he has to go to sleep. Were having a baby in as little as two weeks (medical problems) and i only actually get to conversate with him for about 30 minutes IF i catch him before he can log into his game. Im sick of it! I need more attention than 30 minutes a day. I sit at home alone every day while hes at work, i need some human interaction when hes home. Thats not too much to ask is it? I also feel like its not gonna stop when the baby gets here either and that he'll ignore our son for his game. I said something about it and he blew me off like it was nothing and huffed then went back to his game...Now ive gotta do dinner myself when I feel dizzy and have a head cold because our room mate has to get to work and we promised we would make food. Im so irritated. Am I wrong for feeling this way?

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tt416

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Мама подростков

No. You nyou to put a stop tp that now. You think your exhausted now, just wait til you have a screaming newborn. You need to find a level playing field before the baby gets here so you don't have to fight about it once the baby is here.

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christimary0

Christina ✨

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I'm reading this as I lay in bed alone and my husband sits downstairs and plays video games 🙄 MEN.

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reyesmomma

Crystal

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not wrong at all. and i dont see the big deal about him helping. that even bugs me.!! 😡 and I don't even have to deal with it.

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heatherlou88

Heather

whoo girl. I'd b angry. Im thankful my hubby don't play games, I'd probably go off on his butt.

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