I lost my baby boy 4 days ago... I'm really hurt and trying to find some light just because he wasn't full term I am getting people saying a lot of hurtful things and I'm feeling super low.. Any ideas of how to handle my self?

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Aprile-jo·Мама троих детей

No but unfortunatly some do and it's so sad!!

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Nicole Matthews·Мама двоих (младенец)

@mommyofangles, my heart absolutely breaks for you. I'm so incredibly sorry. no one should ever go through that.

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Aprile-jo·Мама троих детей

I tried not to but when you get a message telling you to keep you baby private because it's disturbing threw me off

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I'm sorry for ur lost. U are in my prayers. Always remember people will talk no matter what the case may be . Don't let them get to you

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Ashlea·Мама сына-младенца

I am so sorry for your loss I couldn't imagine. And no one should condemn you for sharing a picture of your babies. If you need anything even to just rant feel free to message me no matter the time. And have faith I know it may seem hard right now but stay strong blessings happen in mysterious ways

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Melissa·Мама сына-младенца

You are one strong and brave momma! I can't even begin to imagine your pain or heartache! A baby is a baby no matter what stage. And sometimes things happen and we just don't have the answers. What is disturbing is people have the heart to say such hurtful things! Never be afraid to be proud of your babies! You came to the right place! We are all here for you and feel free to message me anytime! 💕

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🎀Jacqui🎀·Мама дочки-младенца

Your babies are beautiful you have every right to post what you want. What's disturbing is the fact that someone would say such a thing. I'm so sorry for your losses and you have every right to mourn and every right to share those pictures. Don't feel like you have to be ashamed of your babies, be proud of them and let them carry on through you. Everything you do from this day on should be for them because it's what they would've wanted, I know it's easier said than done. Take your time, it's okay there's not a time limit for how long you can be sad for and there's not and age limit of a baby that you can and can't mourn for. Anyone who can't understand that clearly has no compassion. I'm glad you were told to come here because you can find support here a lot of us moms know what it feels like to lose our babies so when you hurt a part of us hurts too because we've felt that same pain. We're here for you, please don't hesitate to reach out to any of us ❤️❤️❤️

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Erin·Многодетная мама (5 детей)

I just want you to know that you are in the right place and space for support. I lost a baby at 14 weeks and it crushed my entire world and I wish I'd had this place to turn to. Your babies will always be your babies and how dare anyone be rude about it. ❤️

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Aprile-jo·Мама троих детей

Thank you very much!!!

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Desirae·Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого

It had to be very hard for you to hsve gone through this twice. Much Love to you and your family. I pray for you to have a healthy happy delivery your next try. Do not let anyone make you feel like your babies don't matter, they are the world to you.♡♡♡♡♡

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Aprile-jo·Мама троих детей

I really have a lot of guilt... But I think that's what come with being a mommy and carrying and Spose to be the safe place for baby and failed..... Twice!!!!

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I am so sorry for your loss ! I too and a mommy of two angels. I lost one in my second trimester and another at 9 weeks. I know the comments you're getting hurt because I too was told some of the same things. all you have to do now is surround yourself around love. Grief as long as you want! I still grieve to this day. Your time will come mama! I just had my rainbow baby almost 9 weeks ago and I never thought I'd see the day I have a baby but guess what?! He's here and I promise it's the best feeling ever! Don't give up! Don't blame yourself.

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Aprile-jo·Мама троих детей

It's been really hard and I'm not sure what to do... I went down a very dark road last time I'm trying not to go back down that way.. I'm just happy I am still here... So I'm trying to be positive..... But how... I get even get out of bed... I just ate for the first time in 2 days.... I don't even realize it

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Autumn·Мама двоих (младенец), ждёт третьего

They are gorgeous don't let anyone tell you different I'm so sorry for your lost..):

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Aprile-jo·Мама троих детей
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Aprile-jo·Мама троих детей
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Aprile-jo·Мама троих детей

I have to go threw so many test to find the true reason... I want a rainbow baby... But my boyfriend isn't sure if he wants to try again... 😢

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Janine·Мама двоих (младенец)

I'm sorry for your lost & your more then welcome to post those pics here I promise you will definitely get the support you need. There are so many moms on here having there rainbow babies that will understand how you are feeling including myself. I wish you all the healing & support. 👼

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Aprile-jo·Мама троих детей

And thank you ladies for even that little bit of support... That means the work to me

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Aprile-jo·Мама троих детей

My first baby I lost looked like a ful term but I ppromed and my poor Joshua wasn't able to make it his lungs were not developed... So I will post him all day the one I just lost was 13 weeks so I mean I guess he don't look like a full term baby but scared as hell to post a pic of him now 😪

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Desiree·Мама сына-младенца

I'm so sorry for you lost Hun 👼🙏

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Karen·Мама дочки (1 год), беременна (40 нед.)

I agree, Ignore those people. No baby picture is disturbing. I bet they wouldn't be acting that way and saying those things if they were in your situation. People can be so cruel. I'm so sorry for you lost

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China·Мама двоих (1 год, 5 лет)

I'm sorry for your lost. The last thing you need is someone saying something so stupid after you lost your child.

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Laila Yamili Soto Hdz·Мама дочки-младенца, беременна (32 нед.)

no baby's pic is disturbing i a have friend who lost her baby recently and was full term and is always posting pics of her baby, even after passing she was a gorgeous baby, don't mind what they say its your baby your choice of posting and if they don't like it they can keep scrolling, if it was there child they'd feel the same way. and here you will always find other caring moms, don't ever be ashamed of your baby if you want to post pics just do it... i hope you find some peace and may your baby rest in peace 👼❤

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Aprile-jo·Мама троих детей

I was on some support group on Facebook.... This woman told me my baby's pic was disturbing... Mind you... I'm not the only one posting pics of baby.. There have been far worse but mine are disturbing I haven't stopped crying since I got those rude messages... I am super hurt by this.. So a friend told me to get on here because I have no support as of right now... I'm tried of feeling like my baby doesn't matter that's my baby and my world my everything!!! I want to punch this lady in throat!! How dare she

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omg im so sorry to hear that momma :( what are people saying to you? tell them to fuck off 😠

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