My mother in law is awesome , she's the sweetest lady ever . She bought her own everything for…

My mother in law is awesome , she's the sweetest lady ever . She bought her own everything for greyson and grace . Own crib , carseat, bouncer, stroller, everything for wen the kids visit. We haven't had to buy greyson any pampers or wipes since he been born . But sometimes me and my fiance wants to be first to do stuff like we wanted to buy his first pair of shoes , we wanted to be the first to give him table food . She wants to make his first birthday cake we wanna order him a cake . Cause we want it be a themed cake and she doesn't kno how to decorate it . *Sigh* maybe I'm tripping . What y'all think ?