my SO and I have been talking about breaking up... he thinks I'm just stressed out and emotional..…
my SO and I have been talking about breaking up... he thinks I'm just stressed out and emotional.. he wanted me to wait until after we have the baby and keep trying. see if it gets better with time... well now that were having our baby by Monday I'm freaking out inside... what if things don't get better...? what if we still don't get along very well...? has anyone else been in this situation? did it work out or not?
Mariela·
Мама дочки (1 год)
don't make any decisions yet. you'll want him to be there
Dee Dee·
you're very hormonal..hang on and wait it will probably get better
Mariela·
Мама дочки (1 год)
just wait it out unless there's abuse of course. it's an important part of your life and his. once you have a month or so with baby then talk again
Mariela·
Мама дочки (1 год)
I agree my hormones were ridiculous.
lexi·
Мама сына (4 года), беременна (40 нед.)
@alianagirl, @rainbow417 I know I'm crazy... and some days I feel on top of the world and he's the greatest thing that ever happened to me... but then he's so selfish and immature sometimes I just feel alone and I want yo rip his head off. at least it doesn't sound crazy to you guys to wait it out. that makes me feel a little better.
Nina Wimer·
Мама двоих (младенец)
My relationship was on the rocks due to being hormonal and pregnant but now hes been a lot better and more affectionate. make sure after you have the baby to also work on things with him without discussing where you two stand right away. it may take a month or 2 to completely rekindle things if their meant to be.
lexi·
Мама сына (4 года), беременна (40 нед.)
@ninanicole2, I just feel so distant and he keep talking about how he has to spend all night every night playing on the computer and sleeping all day because soon he won't be able to do whatever he wants... but he's been doing it since before I was pregnant and I just don't think it will stop. its his number one priority right now. 😤
Makayla·
Мама сына-младенца
@ninanicole2, yesss take a good amount of time after the baby too! It WILL be stressful but it's all worth it in the end once they start looking at you and smiling 😊 It can really bring you guys closer
lexi·
Мама сына (4 года), беременна (40 нед.)
@makayleigh, with my first I thought our baby would bring us together... I'm hoping this time it actually happens instead of helping put more distance between us. keeping my fingers crossed. I really do love this goon and I can't imagine being with anyone else or starting over again..
lexi·
Мама сына (4 года), беременна (40 нед.)
@makayleigh, with my first I thought our baby would bring us together... I'm hoping this time it actually happens instead of helping put more distance between us. keeping my fingers crossed. I really do love this goon and I can't imagine being with anyone else or starting over again..
Angel·
Мама дочки-младенца
@lexij, after I had my daughter my fiancé an me had a few big fights but everything is good now. You'll get stressed with a baby but after it calms down hopefully you'll feel connected an stuff. We almost broke up 2/3 times after I gave birth
t·
Мама подростков
Yes we are good. Just comes with maturity and time. working on things that arent really that serious and putting your child first