Ladies you have to stop thinking about your SO in such a negative way. It's not you Vs. them when it…

Ladies you have to stop thinking about your SO in such a negative way. It's not you Vs. them when it comes to baby. If they can get baby to sleep, to calm down, to eat, then be grateful for that!!! Use that time to relax, or get a little work done. Don't think you have to do it alone. Other side of that: if your man doesn't do anything for baby, whip his ass into shape. Men need to be involved.