so after 5yrs my daughter's bio dad decides he wants to get in her life now he's been showing up and…
so after 5yrs my daughter's bio dad decides he wants to get in her life now he's been showing up and doing what he says he will he also asked me to marry him 😱😨 ugh why would he wait until im almost 9mths pregnant and very happy with my man.. Men are crazy as hell 😂😂 I don't want him to see he's not gonna get his way with me and he walk back out on my baby my family is kinda mad at me for letting him back in but its my decision my baby is really happy to have him around he actually cried when he seen her. I just don't want him to be able to say I kept him away ugh life is crazy
Kimberly ·
If you already have an amazing man who accepted your child with your ex as his own make sure you don't screw up your relationship with him. I understand wanting your first born to have a relationship with the bio dad but make sure you don't leave your current love out of making decisions and stuff. Reassure him you love him and he's been a good dad figure. My first son's biological dad and I were never together so in 5 years he's never seen my son (other than in passing). My husband has been in our lives since my first son was 5 months old. I know he would hate it if Aarem's "dad" came into the picture and would feel like he's being pushed away. My advice comes from imagining how my husband would feel if we were going through your situation or a situation similar.
shareka·
My son is 13 almost 14. his dad has not been the greatest over the years, he say he would do something but then don't so I stop calling him, and asking for stuff for my son...and he was and still out having more kids he has dam near 7 now... my son is now old enough to ask his father for what he needs...since my son hit puberty his father has step up...I told him I cant teach him certain things a father should teach his son..he's been there a lot more when my son needs him...one thing I will say sometimes we don't understand why men do what they do when their not there for their kids...your kids know more than you think sometimes....i always said ill let my son decide if he wanted to deal with his dad now that he is old enough... but don't shut them out when they wanna come back and be involved in their lives when their still young like your daughter...but as far as you, if the man you have now love you and your daughter and y'all got a baby on the way don't give him the merger of a thought by letting him think he can have you back.