so this is a bit harsh my mom told me im not being a mother because when my daughter wakes up i sit…

Hell no your not when my daughter wakes up (who is almost 1in 3 minus days) I have my 10 year old take care of her for an hour or so just so I can sleep a little more since I get up with her during the night still

Absolutely not. I do that too even before my second child was born and my mom always have something to tell me and sometimes questions my parenting which is horrible but oh well do what you gotta do 🙄 but I know what I'm doing so I don't have to listen to her at times.

@reaganmommy2015, she tells me i know your tired but your gonna have a 2nd one soon you need to be a mother...all i can do is get irritated because i feel like im doing the best i can being a single mom

@mommyandjonford, its horrible .like i have the worse preggy brain right now and my mom snaps her fingers at me telling me to get it together im about to have another one soon and idk how to react i just get upset to the point where i start to cry

@lovelymomx2, which you are sometimes you just need to either ignore them or block them out. Your doing a great job 😊

@lovelymomx2, uhg I know the feeling! When I was pregnant I told her that I was tired and she said why are tired you're just home and not doing anything but me being pregnant and I have a 3 year old plus she's not always around so she don't know what I'm doing all the time. But its so irritating so I just stay at our room lol 🙄

@reaganmommy2015, thank you

@mommyandjonford, my mom says the same thing why are you tired your pregnant at home

and i say say yes with a very busy 2 year old .who keeps me on my toes. ..and 2 days out the week im babysitting a one year old and lets not forget i am 9 months pregnant. .i just feel like moms are the biggest bullies

your not doing anything wrong ,if anything your mother is by being mean

@abrahamsmommy, its horrible she is always mean and idk y

thares no excuse for her being that way with you. just remember thare your baby's not hers you did a great job of bringing them into the world ,she didn't give birth to them she has no say in what you do with your kids ,your doing a great job don't let anyone tell you otherwise @lovelymomx2

@abrahamsmommy, thank you ill remember that..its hard not allowing them to beat me down with there words so i automatically feel im a horrible mother

I understand especially when it comes from your mother the person who should be encouraging you not making u feel bad ,my mom does the same and my baby isn't even here yet ,stay strong hun u got this @lovelymomx2