I've been a little insecure about myself when I was pregnant and now after but I think now my…

he has to go? for what? ?

That's weird. I wouldn't care if my man went but to say all that and then say he has to go? Really weird. Sorry momma

has to go? no one has to go..you need to get to the bottom of that!

@allyk.xmommy, I have no idea he keeps telling me he needs his space. But I don't understand why you'd go to a strip club instead of going out with your friends to the bar or something

@jaxxmommie22, I would show him how it feels and do something he hates

@housfullofgrls, @adaraa126 I wouldn't really care but since he said it like that I care. He acts like I don't let him do anything. And then when I told him that I was thinking about having a girls day soon to go get my nails done and ect. And maybe have a drink with my friends but I was told I would be a horrible mother if I took a few hours of the day for me time. 😔

We all need me time. And if he gets me time then you should too. Don't let anyone tell you being a mother is your only job now. That's BS.

@allyk.xmommy, I'm about to tell him I'm gonna go out with my friends. He always hated that before we got pregnant I'd go out and not come home till like 4am

uhhhh wow..yeah..i cant tell you what to do but i would not be able to be with someone like that. If he wants to play that game, then he can be considered a bad father for running away to a strip club like a pervert instead of being with his kid and wife

@housfullofgrls, right ever since our son was born I've been the only one taking care of him I get up every morning and night to feed him and change his diapers take him to his doctors appointments. I used to ask for his help but he would just complain about it so now I just gave up and do everything on my own. He doesn't even see our son. He's doesn't go check on him when he gets home from work at 5am if he's not up yet but if he is up and crying he will wait downstairs until he hears me put him back in his bed after I'm done feeding him and everything. He gets up a hour an hour before he has to be at work he just walks pass our son like he's not even there. Doesn't kiss him by or anything. That's really heartbreaking our son doesn't even know who he is which is sad but he always acts like he's dad of the year and does all this great stuff

@adaraa126, right I planned a family day for us to go to the apple orchard but he would rather go there.

thats awful..theres no way i would tolerate that.