damn.. what do you do when you find messages on your husbands phone talking to another girl? and him…

oh. I'm so sorry hun. confront him. confront her. explain how broken you are

I found messages but dont know if he was actually with another girl but I put his ass on lock, he doesnt really go any where, brings his friends to my house to chill & took the lock off his phone, hes never really on his phone any more... untill i can trust him again, did you talk to him about it? sorry you had to find that out, if you need to talk im here!

@savvylynn1,

not yet, he's asleep so when he gets up I'll be talking to him. idk what I should do. I've never had a problem with him before... this was his friends girl not that long ago too. @babyleon

Ask him, talk it out... But do not go after her that's one of the worst things you can do your husband is the one that owes you loyalty and trust, not her! Work it out with him.

idk how to, am I supposed to take his word that he won't do it again? idk what to do I've never had to go through this. 4 years later and now something happens. @jumimom

I'm so sorry your going threw this I hope you talk to him and you guys work things out I hope for the best for your relationship and your family keep your head up don't stress remember it's bad for baby!

super late to the game but you told him what u saw right?

yeah I did. we talked kinda already. idk I'm broken & so lost I can't even talk to him. basically, I told him that it's his wife and child on the line and if he doesn't do the right thing that I'm going back to my moms(cuz we're going on Thursday to stay the weekend in Vegas) so I told him he can leave me there & I won't go back with him. and he held me while I cried and said he was so so sorry and that he loved me and he knows he fucked up and he's gonna make it up to me and that I can trust him and all this stuff. @mamaash

thank you so much @sweetness208