No matter what me and my oldest son father went through as long as he was never harmful or…

No matter what me and my oldest son father went through as long as he was never harmful or neglectful to my child In Anyway even though at times he could be a real asshole I would never keep my son away from him about no miss child support or because they wanted to be with somebody else and not be with me I don't play games like that with my kids never will I ever play games like that children need their both of their parents and if you think keeping them away from their other parent because you on some bull shyt you making yourself look bad that child is going to grow up hating you not that other parent.... Kids remember memories spent with their parents they don't remember if he or she missed a child support payment.... Stop using your kids as checks and ways to get back with somebody that don't want you cuz you're only making it worse for yourself.