kayleighandcharlotte
Kayleigh
So for the last 7 weeks I've constantly done everything for Charlotte 24/7, plus everything around the house and everything for my boyfriend. I've very rarely had help with nappies or feeds from my boyfriend, unless it's only a wee nappy - I think he's changed maybe 2 poos the whole time. He does work upto 12hr days sometimes so I do understand he's tired but I'm fucking exhausted come 6pm. I really feel like I need a break for a day or a night or even just a few hours but I feel bad for wanting that 😞
His parents offered to look after her for us because they know it's all taking its toll on me but I'm so horrible with being able to put my hand up and say I need help 🙁
His parents offered to look after her for us because they know it's all taking its toll on me but I'm so horrible with being able to put my hand up and say I need help 🙁
12.09.2016
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kayleighandcharlotte
@carlyanaya, haha yeah maybe that's why I get so angry at him too 🙈 but were you ever worried at the beginning that they'd possibly steal anything from you? Nic finds it so hard to trust anyone we don't know coming into our house cause he's had his long term friends steal things from him before.. 😕
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carlyanaya
definitely and if you do, don't feel guilty. It's worth it. If I didn't have that bit of help I would be building up rage for hubby on a weekly basis... Lol
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kayleighandcharlotte
@carlyanaya, his dad actually said something the other week about getting us a cleaner 😂 because his parents own our place and if there's any kind of mark on the wall they talk about it for like a week 🙄😂 i think I'm definitely going to have to look into it.
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carlyanaya
Yep my washing is the same! Honestly if he isn't opposed to getting A cleaner then get one! Mine is $60 for 2 hours and she comes once a fortnight. I kind of lucked out with her though, she's amazing and totally helps me catch up or does the things I don't get around to doing. Hubby is fine with me getting her Coz he doesn't want to do it himself or help lol it's worth it for your own sanity and to not get overwhelmed as being a mum is a 24/7 full time .. Never end job!
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kayleighandcharlotte
@carlyanaya, it's horrible feeling like this :( Nic is pretty up there with being undomesticated himself, I'm always cleaning up after him 😒 I ask him to help but most the time there's always some kind of excuse.. The only time he helps is on weekends and that's maybe once a day if I'm lucky 😞 I'm so behind on the clothes washing there's literally Mount Everest of clothes in my laundry. I feel like I need to get a cleaner in to help me out
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carlyanaya
Also get a bouncer and a walker for when she's old enough to give you a break
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carlyanaya
I know exactly how you feel, every day I feel like I'm just run off my feet, my body aches from holding him, and I can't keep on top of the jobs. My hubby is good at helping when I ask but he is the most UNdomesticated person I know. He doesn't clean up after himself one bit, does your partner help if you ask him? Remmer is 7 months now and it is getting easier. I leave him with hubby on sat afternoons because I have to tend to my horse and my sister in law will take him if I need a babysitter, I never ask though lol. I ended up hiring a cleaner to do 2-3 hours once a fortnight to catch up and I live for that day lol
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