Ladies, did your man want to have another baby when your oldest one is so many months old?. Cause me…

before my son was born we wanted our kids to be close together, but after he had to go into nicu we decided on waiting till he's at least 2 to make sure he's ok health wise

@mum2logi, mine and my husbands son was born healthy as a horse and he's already wanting to sit up by himself. I want to have another baby but I'm worried that my family and my husband family is gonna be judgemental about it. Which I hope they aren't going to be.

My husband said he wanted to try again immediately after our baby girl was born and I thought for sure that he would change his mind once she got here... but nope, she's only two months and he wants me to be pregnant so bad. I want it too but I had a c section so my doctor wants me to wait at least 6 months.

I think you have to feel comfortable with it for sure. I really want my kiddos to be close in age. But I feel like I could deal with them being close. Not everyone can, which is totally okay.

@jleightutt, I had my son naturally and the stitches came out a while back. So is it safe to start having sex again?. Or should I wait till my doctor confirms it?.

I started having sex again around 3 weeks post partum, right after I stopped bleeding... but like I said, I had a csection so I didn't tear or anything. I would say if you've stopped bleeding(they say that's when you're healed) and if your stitches are out, then go for it☺️

you need to wait till at least a year so your body can heal

if you know you can care for two, who cares! my family didn't think I had any business having one but whatever.