ok guys this is really personal but i want to share it because I am very worried so at the beginning of my pregnancy I…
ok guys this is really personal but i want to share it because I am very worried so at the beginning of my pregnancy I was told I have herpes. which I got from my son's dad because he was cheating on me with multiple women and didn't think I knew about it. now me and my doctor talk about it and he said if i have a outbreak during labor I will get a c-section but if I don't have one i will have to do it natural. But I really fear for my son and I want a c-section because the STD that was given to me was not fair I never had to deal with something like this in my life and I do not want my son to go through this either. so I am very scared i dont know if anyone else deal with this or has or is going through something like this but I fear for the safety of my son. me and my son's dad don't have sex because he doesn't live here he doesn't come back till next month and I told him I wanted him to get test to see what ever else he has. I'm so scared guy that's one of the real reasons why I'm scared of labor no body in my family knows only im son's dad and my close friends.
brandy·
Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого
you really need to tell your doctor to reconsider doing c section regardless becausemy aunt gave birth naturally with herpes even though she didn't have an outbreak and her son had it in his eyes and all over his face a week later poor kid was suffering from the pain please tell him don't put your kid through that it's awful I pray for you and your baby
Tera·
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@brandyi87, awwwe 😞 that making me really want to cry. I just pisses me off every time I think about it like I want to hurt my son's dad Everytime I have a outbreak or I think about my son's health I really want a c-section like something in my body is just tell me that I need to have i really fear for my son and if my son get it im going to hurt my son's dad because this is not fear we didn't ask for this this is something that's been stressing me out my whole pregnancy
brandy·
Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого
I know I'm truly sorry I am not trying to scare you worse but your in the right for wanting a c section beg your doctor look it up and say hey you really need to reconsider this because it's not healthy for my child and I am not risking his health please don't cry.... I'm so sorry
Kathleen Rix·
I was told in 2009 that I have herpes, I have never had an outbreak. With my Daughter I had her natural and never had no issues, with this pregnancy my midwife said she will start giving me meds at 36 weeks to make sure I don't have an outbreak, which honestly I don't really care to have since I have never had an outbreak and no meds was ever mentioned to me with my daughter. My midwife insist she has to treat me tho. I understand your fear, but if I were you I would talk to your doc and see if she will give you meds around 36 weeks to insure you don't have an outbreak.
Jasmine Atencio·
Wow, you do know he can go to prison for knowingly giving you an STD?
Mel·
Мама дочки (1 год), беременна (24 нед.)
I delivered my baby successfully naturally and I have herpes. no outbreak obviously at the time of birth. she is 19 months now and has never had any signs of it. I mean the risk of your baby getting it while you don't have an outbreak is slim to none..... ive honestly never heard of someone's baby end up having it when the mother didn't have an outbreak... well until the girl above me wrote that.
Mel·
Мама дочки (1 год), беременна (24 нед.)
I was also given meds to take to prevent an outbreak once I hit third trimester.
Tera·
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@mrsrixx, they said there going to give me meds so that I don't have it during labor I already been taken meds cause I get outbreaks here and there
Tera·
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@mommytoprinceaiden092915, he didn't know he had it till I told him I had it he really could say nothing he just knew he messed up and that I was and still am really hurt by it
Tera·
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@mdomke22, I already have meds to treat my outbreaks but there going to give me more or something stronger I guess at the end of October cause im due in November
princess R·
I think u should really talk to your doctor about having your baby through c-section . My aunt went through the same thing with her last child, the guy gave her herpes she doesn't have outbreaks but unfortunately for the baby when she had him it passed and he gets outbreaks bad. C-section would be what's best for u babe.
Mel·
Мама дочки (1 год), беременна (24 нед.)
Damn now yall got me wanting to talk to my doctor about this mess again... @muvaa_ I wasn't even worried since last time it went so smooth for me...but now in thinking about it all over again for this baby... 😕😦😳
Mel·
Мама дочки (1 год), беременна (24 нед.)
when did her baby start getting outbreaks? @muvaa_
princess R·
Right after he was born , and he's 4 now and he still gets break outs , while my aunt doesn't and she hasn't had an outbreak . Talk to your doctor love , better safe than sorry @mdomke22
Tera·
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@muvaa_, 😞
princess R·
Don't be sad babe, just talk to your doctor and let them know you'd be more comfortable with a C-Section just to ensure your baby's health. I'm so sorry you have to go through this 😕😔 @itty-bitty22