my sister in law made my mom make her gender reveal cake and that makes me so mad because my mom agreed to do it when it was just a onesie cake but then my sister in law bought a monkey shaped pan and expected my mom to know how to decorate it. my mom is not a baker and she offered to have someone make it but my sister in law said no because she didn't want to pay the $20 to buy a cake 😒 my mom has been having a tough time lately so it just irritates me more that she was expected to do this. sorry I'm just venting lol