Whenever people talk to me about getting married, they either say something about religion and god,…
Whenever people talk to me about getting married, they either say something about religion and god, financial security or they say "don't you want to be able to say that's my husband?" Like claiming ownership. 1. My man is my husband, because he works his ass off for our family. He is always honest, even when it comes to things I may not want to hear. He is loyal to me. The most humble man I've ever met, never judges others. A piece of paper isn't going to make him love me anymore and vice versa. We aren't religious people and that's our choice, we're kind and good hearted people and that's really all that truly matters. If you follow a religion but aren't a good person and judge the lives of others, you're really contradicting yourself. Yes everyone sins, but if you make no effort to change and are condemning people because they don't believe what you believe, you have issues. So I'll be here unmarried, and in the most loving relationship I've ever been in. Where a piece of paper has no meaning. We are each others power of attorney, we have policies set in place in case either of us passes, our son has all the love and support he will ever need. MARRIAGE MEANS NOTHING, that's my opinion and if you don't like it. Well that's your problem, not mine. Bless your heart 😉😘
missing225user·
Мама двоих (младенец)
Baby girl, you HAVE a marriage...and some of the folks judging you ONLY have that piece of paper. You have all the bases covered. Live your beautiful life and let those people sit and watch; perhaps they'll learn.
Sari·
Мама дочки (6 лет), беременна (37 нед.)
Thanks love! I wish people could just have their differences and leave it at that. Whether we're married, rich, poor, etc... no one's better than anybody. You have an amazing day ❤ @tayek
missing225user·
Мама двоих (младенец)
@sarinunez, I was with my husband for the past 8 years. We've been legally married only one year and change. When we got those papers it was such a regular day, and it didn't open up some magical portal of perfect happiness. We are still exactly the same!!! I don't know why people get so caught up worrying about other people's households. I like seeing happy couples period. Papers don't give that. ❤
Marilu·
My personal belief is that marriage is a God ordained thing. But I never push my belief on anyone. If they ask, I'll let them know how I feel but it's their decision. I have family that has lived together for 20 years and act married but aren't. None of my business. It's not my place to tell them how to live their life. I was living with my husband for 2 1/2 years and even though it's still the same after the "piece of paper" the commitment is there and that's why I did it. That and for my religious beliefs. To me, not getting married meant he or I didn't want to commit to each other forever. I was the one who delayed marriage, not him. I went through a divorce and wanted to wait. But I felt wrong for living with him and not getting married since I go to church and because I love him and didn't want to live without him so I decided I may as well. Lol plus he's pretty hot I in his wedding band! 😍 But what you do is your business. I don't think any differently of you or anyone else. Don't let people get to you. Someone will always run their mouth, judge or point fingers when they have their own problems. 😊. @tayek you're right, papers don't give happiness in a marriage. Wish they did! Haha!
Amanda·
Мама дочки (1 год), беременна (38 нед.)
Preach on !!!! I know one day my SO and I will get married but right now neither I nor him care for it.
missing225user·
Мама двоих (младенец)
@amaperalta03, You guys are a-ok.
Sari·
Мама дочки (6 лет), беременна (37 нед.)
Personally I'm not against marriage for myself, but I don't see the point in rushing there, especially because I'm pregnant now. I don't let anyone get to me, but when I see something I feel like I should speak on it. I'm happy for others when they're happy, their personal decisions don't affect me you know? I just wish other people could have their own views but still be respectful. Like you! Thanks for commenting 😊 @morganmommy79
Sari·
Мама дочки (6 лет), беременна (37 нед.)
There's no rush, everyone does things on their own time. I wouldn't mind getting married but I'm starting school soon and won't get financial aid with my boyfriend's income. Cause' America.... lol. @amaperalta03
Marilu·
@sarinunez, thank you! No need to be disrespectful because others don't think like me. My husband is a little dogmatic but I'm a lot more easy going. 😉 lol
Amanda·
Мама дочки (1 год), беременна (38 нед.)
Exactly our family keeps pressuring us but we aren't budging well do it when and if we want to. And he and I have a living will that gives each other power of anything medical wise with each other. So I don't need to be married to him to make his medics decisions for him when he can't for himself