Hun that happened with my oldest father needless to say we aren't together anymore he's an abusive douche bag that deserves to choke on his on semen but that's just me his excuse was I don't wanna accidentally poke the baby yeh well that continued into after me having the baby and getting on BC but we broke up cause he kidnapped my baby girl and was gonna keep her from me and after flipping a table over at me while I had her in my arms and something flying off almost killing her him putting a gun to my head while I was pregnant and told me to drop outta school and throwing a sewing machine at me because he thought I was cheating on him in the bathroom when in reality I was researching yeast infection meds cause I was scared they'd hurt my little girl and a whole bunch more but those are just the highlights ;) lol but really you're absolutely gorgeous and if he isn't attracted to you anymore he's crazy