I don't think I've ever been so upset. my husband was in jail for almost a year....and was sentenced to rehab in July. he was supposed to be "blackout" for 3 months, it's now been 4 months. they won't let us talk. how are we supposed to fix our marriage if we can't talk?! he called me just now, mind you, he will get in trouble if they find out, and I told him I can't do this anymore because my depression and anxiety are sky high. I feel like they're punishing me as well as him. he says he wants to go back to jail because we will at least see each other and be able to talk.