why must my 2 year old he such an ass? she sees me drying dishes and snatches the dish rag from the…

why must my 2 year old he such an ass? she sees me drying dishes and snatches the dish rag from the counter and drags it all over the floor and runs when I try to get it back. I try to lay my 3 months old down for a nap and come back to find her with my door mat flipped upside down dragging it across the house.... dirt... dirt EVERYWHERE. why child why do you hate me so freakin much?