I don't know if it's just my emotions or what but I swear am doing my best at trying to keep my head…
I don't know if it's just my emotions or what but I swear am doing my best at trying to keep my head above water and help him out. I am so tired of trying. this pregnancy has been nothing but ME running around trying to get things done for my little one without struggling but having SO that just keeps having problems that are draining my account t and what I had saved for the baby is truly killing me not to mention me working my butt off on my job trying to get things done for an easy transition. I quit!! I have five weeks left and NONE of it has been about me. ever. Don't nobody care about me or if I am ok. I swear I am going to let my phone turn off and just keep driving until there is no more gas in my car. this is ridiculous. this is not how I had things planned. everything is so ruined.
missing225user·
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Don't give him your baby's money. I know you want to be helpful, but you have a child now and the child comes first. He has repeated issues, which means he is mismanaging his funds and knows he can depend on you. Nothing wrong with being dependable BUT you need to cut the purse strings and prepare for your baby's arrival.
Kedra·
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I feel u. & I learned the hard way that nothing ever goes as planned- that's life!
candice·
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I have what I need for the baby. I did it all my self @kedrababy but I am also taking care of three households for the past 4 months. he been having problems keeping up with his rent...I have my rent and bills..and I also have a mortgage in another state. I barely have enough money to take care of myself and it just doesn't seem like it's letting up. I am trying to hold out seeing as my house has a renter this month ..but the bills are racking up. I never planned on having a partner when it came to my first child. it really feels like he is draining the life out of me and I am in no rush with trying to live together. :(. I am so freaking stressed with everything it is ridiculous
candice·
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@tayek, my bad wrong person previous comment was for you
missing225user·
Мама двоих (младенец)
@candice1234, you're spreading yourself too thin and everyone is enjoying the ride...except you. He needs to become more responsible and carry his own weight. He's gonna drain you dry. You have items for the baby BUT you don't have peace of mind. And if you are straining to take care of yourself and stay afloat, you won't be able to take care of you OR baby. Don't let that grown boy use you anymore. 😔
candice·
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that's my plan. I'm done. I told him yesterday that I am done trying to make things work. I am centimeters from just cutting everyone off. just feel like no one cares how I feel or whatever as long as they can get what they want or need from me