Just to start off this post I'm not trying to be mean or talking bad about a friend! but I have a…
Just to start off this post I'm not trying to be mean or talking bad about a friend!
but I have a friend we used to be best friends and party together and I lived with her and her family for some time.
After I met my boyfriend and got pregnant . She was there for me but not really because I couldn't drink or party but she was there when my son was born . We grew apart I guess you could say!
But NOW I feel some kind of way because she only hangs out with me when she feels like it .
If I was to hit her up because I missed her and wanted to see her she wouldn't even answer my texts and mins later post snapchats with her NEW best-friend.
she would call me randomly after a month of not talking to me saying lets hang out!
I feel like she is using me . And she only hangs out when she wants too but when I want to hang out she doesn't even answer . Am I overreacting ???
Felicia·
No your not, I've had friends like that... eventually I'd just let it go & find other friends...
Selena·
It's like that saying. If you wanna know who your real friends are, get pregnant. I think it's very true bc I have the exact same situation. I had a friend who I would party and drink with and she lived with me for a few months so we grew close but after she moved out and i moved in with my bf and got pregnant she just stopped talking to me and she will only message me to come over when I feel like she has nothing better to do. At the beginning I was bummed out bc I truly cared for her like a sister but now I feel like she showed her true colors and I've learned to just let it go and do me. So don't sweat it girl it just means she didn't really care about your friendship she just wanted someone to have fun with. At least that's how I view my situation
Iamyazminn ·
Мама сына (1 год), беременна (30 нед.)
@sel96, yea . It's sad but fuck it. I hit her up last night because we were supposed to hang out and she never answered .
Today is my sisters bday and I invited her at first but didn't tell her where it was gonna be . I'm just gonna go have fun post snapchats😂 and she can go fuck herself I know she's gonna hit me up like why didn't you invite me . Bitch because you use me , now I'm gonna have fun so go be with your stupid ass bestfriend.
Selena·
@yazdahboss, yes girl you do you! Next time she hits you up just ignore her and reply like two days later. That's something I'd do lol🙃
Iamyazminn ·
Мама сына (1 год), беременна (30 нед.)
She messaged me . But I didn't answer . I will take two months lol since she takes one month @sel96 😂😂😂😂
Selena·
Lol this is so funny! I was just telling you about my situation and she just messaged me too😂
Iamyazminn ·
Мама сына (1 год), беременна (30 нед.)
@sel96, lol I think is one of those things like when you think about someone and you put that out into the universe and they call you or text you and your like wtf I was just thinking about you and now your calling me
Selena·
Lol yes exactly😴