haven't been on here in a while but needed someone to talk to. I might be letting this bother me…

Have u asked him why he's acting that way?

move on he's probably cheating

Why would you say that to her?@holyholy3 pregnancy doesn't just effect you. It effects your spouse too, maybe he feels as if he doesn't want to have sex because it'll hurt you and the baby, maybe he feels like YOU don't want to have sex with him? Maybe he has a lot on his mind. It's just a big if a step for him as it is you and it could take a toll on him as well, think positively and just talk to him.

@holyholy3, he works nights so he's pretty tired with not getting much sleep bc when he sleeps in the bed after his shift when I get up he gets up... he works from home though.

@p0790 he said like last week or so that he just doesn't want to.

I understand that I been where she's at so I understand your situation

@boymommy8231, im going to try to tomorrow bc hes off tomorrow for once but I feel like if I bring it up he will get irritated and I know he probably doesn't want to hurt the baby or me but still cuddle with me or something lol... And we agreed we didn't want a relationship based on sex but holy dang we had sex a lot before we found out I was pregnant.

I think maybe he's just going through some things, his minds probably all over the place lol. Maybe he worries he won't be able to please you the same? It could be anything but cheating would be the last thing I'd think of. If he gets irritated then leave it alone, and it'll give him something to think about eventually. He will come around.

ok I am sorry if I said something out the way I am the baby on here I am 18 so I am a first time mom I understand I been where you are I am frustrated as well

My boyfriend is the same way. He works then comes home and watches tv. We barely have sex, but it's because it's uncomfortable for me. Pregnancy can affect the man too. As @boymommy8231 said, he probably doesn't wanna hurt you or the baby. I wouldn't automatically think he's cheating. He's probably just all mind jumbled right now just like you because of the baby on the way. I wouldn't worry too much. Just sit him down and have a talk with him if it really bothers you and let him know how you feel. 🙂

@boymommy8231, I know his mind is everywhere like this was so unplanned and unexpected and he doesn't talk much he bottles things in y'all are gonn a judge but we only been together 6 months and I'm 20 weeks pregnant. we have no money love at his parents we have barely room for my stuff let alone a baby his dad's health isnt doing good... I guess I'll mention it amd see and if not whatever. idk why it's bothering me a lot tonight like I'm sleeping on the couch bc I am literally in tears over this tonight lol. I didn't even get a good night kiss. I seen in his video history on his phone the other night some porn videos like wtf that's a big reason I'm so bothered tonight bc you can look at those but can't have sex or even touch me

@holyholy3, you're good girl. I know hes not a cheater by any means. I'm a first time mom too and he's a first time dad.

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@mommyofsummerfaith, he's not.very good at communication but it's not just the no sex that bothers me I feel like I'm not pretty or his type anymore he doesmt.touch me except for slapping my ass like usual and touching my boobs like usual ... I get a kiss bc I ask.for it not bc he just does it.

@mommyofsummerfaith, he seen a video of labor and a woman's vagina and said he's not having sex after the baby either I said they stitch you up and you go back to normal amd he said nope lol