A rather a man check my cervix over a woman. I feel like woman have smaller fingers so they apply…

@cubanese, omg yes. The other day at the hospital a woman checked my cervix twice and she had so much trouble doing it and was very rough.

I had a guy check my cervix and it was terrible and really awkward like it took so long to the point I had to look down to see like wtf was taking so long and he was staring like demonically at me. And then he couldn't figure it out so someone else had to. This pregnancy only woman have checked me. My MW is so sweet so I'm happy.

@imhermomduh, that is awkward was he a student ? My experience has been opposite. I find woman having trouble but the men being more gentle and in and out

I had bad experiences from both. See my uterus is tilted which means my cervix is tilted so they have to work to get up in there.

But I had a male doctor literally take his fingers and shove them in there really fast. I almost kicked him dead in his face.

Male is better

They did mention that he was new to the hospital. But I was in labor so I expected the pain but the look was scary and very weird to me. But yeah women think that since they have a vagina they know how it is and men are like "oh god I'm sorry I don't want to hurt you" haha

100% rather have a man than a woman! Had a woman down there once and felt violated! And she was rough. Had a lady midwife feel around my tummy today and it was painful cuz of how rough she was. Never had that issue with a man!

i have always had females and never had a problem