Why is my dad's wife trying to get me to move to barstow to live. She oblivious is unaware that…

Why is my dad's wife trying to get me to move to barstow to live. She oblivious is unaware that there is no jobs and it is in the middle of nowhere. She wants us to move so bad that wants us to be in middle of nowhere where people can't get to me or the kids. I mine as well should have stayed Vegas.