Hardly... 😭 @breezy1993

Have you guys talked about what happened last night?

I'm trying.. But Everytime I think about it or him I just start crying again... 😭😭 @breezy1993

That's a great idea. Having a plan is the first step now to do it. I wish you the best of luck on your journey and hope you and your boyfriend can figure out what to do about his mom. keep your head up

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That's what I'm gonna do. I'm gonna go apply at a different job that pays way more, and save up.

Sounds like she's being unreasonable it makes more sense when you put it that way.

Well then go ahead and get your own place? She can't tell you that you can't. maybe being at your grandmas will be best until you can get an apartment.

She despises me. I'm not allowed back over there. I'm staying at my grandmas.. And bills? I've been paying more than half of their bills. All they ever did was rob me of my money... 😡 and I was getting sick and tired of it.... @breezy1993 I've been talking to him about us getting our own place and then his mom throws a bitch fit about it, saying that's all I ever wanted was to take him from his family.. When I just wanna start a new life in a better environment cuz all they do is treat him like crap too...

that really sucks girl I'm sorry you dont have anywhere to go 😔 I've been there. although can I offer some insight, I know it may not be exactly what you want to hear but have you thought about the fact that maybe she knows you are having sex and is scared for you both to have a child at such a young age when you have no place of your own? if you aren't paying bills now how will you pay bills and take care of a baby? babies are wonderful and at times when we are younger it almost seems like they are glamorized like having a baby is easy but its not. just the delivery of having a baby is about 6,000 dollars. your baby needs clothes, diapers, formula or you need a breast pump, crib, car seat etc and if you don't have a car how will you transport the baby etc. babies are wonderful but also lots of sleepless nights and can at times financial Strain you. maybe his mom really does care and is just trying to prevent you both from giving up on your childhoods so early. I know you want a child and you will have a child someday but dont rush your life you have plenty to still live. and maybe sit down and talk with her and stay calm even if she's being a little crazy and have an adult conversation with her to see where she is coming from after all if you did have a baby that would be your childs grandma and she is the woman who made your boyfriend. think about if your son had a girl in the house and how you would feel. just a thought

She made me go on the shot, if I wanted to stay there. And she had just gotten back for work in a pissy mood, and the she found out she had to go back to pull a double shift, and she was just saying some pretty nasty things to me and I just had it with her, so they kicked me out (this is all around 11pm-12am) so I got myself and all my stuff out and couldn't find anyone to take me in or help me find a place. So my boyfriend let me back in cuz it was freezing (his dad was asleep and his brother was in his own room) and his dad ended up waking up and finding us in his room got mad and called the cops.. @breezy1993

you didn't want to be on the shot or? I'm confused. And how did she call the cops if you just stood up for yourself?

@breezy1993 because I stood up for myself. His mom was constantly trying to put me down calling me rude names and I just had it last night.. I've Been ttc since Nov. '15 but got put on the shot in May of this year, and was suppose to the the second dose from Aug. 8th-23rd. But I missed it (thank god)

You could be pregnant... but if you aren't maybe waiting on ttc might be best if things aren't stable. why did you get kicked out?