I don't know my gender yet, I'm only 9 weeks. I'm afraid when I do find out my gender, and if it's not a girl, I am going to be disappointed. Honestly, I do not care as long as he or she is healthy, but I have my mind set on girl because according to the Ramzi theory, I am having a girl, I am carrying differently than my Son, I am gaining weight all over my stomach and body, morning sickness (never had it with my Son), and the heart beat at 8 weeks, 3 days was 163bpm. I'm worried I am going to be disappointed. Is this normal? I feel like a bad person.
I don't know where you guys heard boy is all over because everywhere I look it says girls all over and boys are just the stomach area and that is how it was with my son lol. But, I guess everyone is different.
I wanted a girl first, which I got. I wanted a boy next, which I got. My last one I wanted another girl to dress up, do hair, etc.. I had a boy. I was a little disappointed but got over it. Now that he is here, I love him dearly. Wouldn't change nothing for him!!
Ik, I'm just saying. You may be upset at first but after you see them it won't matter..it might even grow on you while your pregnant && you'll forget how much you wanted a girl
I know how you feel. I've had this distinct feeling that it's going to be a girl. I've even started calling my belly by the girl name I picked and always refer to the baby as "she" but I have to agree, usually all over is boys. then again every pregnancy is different. everyone swore up and down I was having a girl when I was pregnant with my son. every single sign and symptom pointed to girl based on every possible gender test and yet I had a little boy
@ariliyahzihmommy3, I'm not sure if I'm having a girl or boy yet, won't know until November. I'm only 2 months and a week lol.
it's normal. I felt the same way with this 3rd baby I had. I wanted 2 girls && both times knew they were gonna be girls..with my recent baby I wanted a boy felt like it was gonna be a boy. Even was told by an ultrasound tech at 9w that it was a "boy", felt like it was too early on to tell but him being a professional I took it and ran only to find out at 17w it was another girl. I cried the whole 30 mom drive home.It will pas, you may still think how much you wanted a girl but now you'll have a perfect Prince that you'll be overly in love with.
I was told gaining weight everywhere is girl. My mom gained weight everywhere, my sister in law gained weight everywhere, and with my Son, I only gained in the stomach area, it looked like a basket ball, you couldn't even tell I was pregnant from behind lol. My mind is set on girl but, 50/50, we will see in Nivember
Even my OB said girls are high and all over and boys are low and only stomach area. That is how it was with my sister in law, my mom, etc. I carried my son strictly ONLY in my stomach. I didn't gain anywhere else. You couldn't even tell I was pregnant unless you seen me in the front or on the side