i really think my fiancé and i have been arguing so much because were stressed with being first time…

i really think my fiancé and i have been arguing so much because were stressed with being first time parents . everything is so new . and its not easy , idc what anyone says . and we havent had sex in a while . the last trimester made sex misserable for me . i still tried and he wouldnt because he knew it hurt me and he didnt like the thought of hurting me . now im recovering from surgery and bleeding 😷 i miss the sexual part of our relationship a lot .