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Paisley

How do you tell someone you might be pregnant when he has a girlfriend?

how do you tell someone you might be pregnant? i'm not sure i'm pregnant but i want to tell the guy i was sleeping with so he can get me a test. i don't really talk to him and he has a girlfriend so i have no clue what the right way to talk to him is and i'm freaking out

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imhermomduh

Mallory Ann

Мама дочки (1 год), беременна (38 нед.)

You're just going to have to tell him. It doesn't matter if he has a girl. He partook in risky business so.

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emily18234

Emily

Мама подростков

why not just get an 88 cent walmart one? I don't know your situation, but no point in stressing over a maybe if you haven't even tested

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sandycheeks

sandra usher

Мама двоих (2 года, 3 года)

just go get a dollar store test for 1$ and take it. if your pregnant you need to tell him. if your not I'd just not be with someone who has a girlfriend. that is a lot of drama if you do get pregnant while he's in a relationship. he may deny it or not want to leave her.

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shadesofcool01

Paisley

i cant drive. i took one test and nobody can tell if it's positive or not so i just want to take another and i need him to get me one

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emily18234

Emily

Мама подростков

post it here. plenty of women who know what a positive test looks like

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navywifej

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post the test here

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shadesofcool01

Paisley

here it is

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shadesofcool01

Paisley

and even if it looks negative i'm worried because my period is 3 weeks late and i've been getting really sick

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sandycheeks

sandra usher

Мама двоих (2 года, 3 года)

if its 1 line its negative if its 2 your positive lol. it shows on the box hun. ☺

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navywifej

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@emily18234, do you see a second line? it looks really faded

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emily18234

Emily

Мама подростков

evap

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emily18234

Emily

Мама подростков

trust me. I had a few false positives lately. I know what those fuckers look like.

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sandycheeks

sandra usher

Мама двоих (2 года, 3 года)

but your last post said you got a negative pregnancy test so ? did you take another or what? seems you may not be pregnant. you may just be late . a lot of things can make you late besides pregnancy

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emily18234

Emily

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so no, you're not pregnant. sounds like could be stress or something else more serious. call a doctor if you're worried, but it's not pregnancy.

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shadesofcool01

Paisley

@emily18234, so you don't think i'm pregnant?!

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emily18234

Emily

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nope. I know you're not. I can take a few pictures of the Evaps I have right upstairs. not even close to pregnant.

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emily18234

Emily

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I haven't had a period in well over a year so I take one at least weekly.

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imhermomduh

Mallory Ann

Мама дочки (1 год), беременна (38 нед.)

I see a faint line. If your only 3 weeks late. Wait a couple more and try again.

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shadesofcool01

Paisley

@emily18234, you don't even understand what a relief that is to hear. i've been shaking and crying all day because everybody's been telling me i'm pregnant but i just really can't believe it

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emily18234

Emily

Мама подростков

I understand completely. but every single test I have upstairs looks like that pretty much. same brand.

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navywifej

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if you wanna be sure about it visit the doctor just to be sure

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shadesofcool01

Paisley

@navywifej, i'm not eighteen and can't drive so it's kind of out of question

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emily18234

Emily

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just because you're not 18 you can still go to the doctor. but since you're young, your period could still be regulating. mine didn't until after my first

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emily18234

Emily

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you don't have to tell your parents what you need to go for. you could always just be sick

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shadesofcool01

Paisley

@emily18234, i know but i'm not even sure i have a doctor. i haven't been since i was 10

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kennedydanielle2

Kennedy Goucher

Мама дочки-младенца

I see a very faint line.

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emily18234

Emily

Мама подростков

if you have insurance, you have a PCP. you can call anyone within network and schedule an annual physical for free. depending on your insurance, they could possibly help with transportation as well.

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mrshamilton830

Nesha

Мама троих детей

I would retest because your test Looks like my first test I took and I'm definitely pregnant

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mommybean823

mommybean

Мама двоих (5 лет, 9 лет)

there's a line there. I adjusted it for you

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mommybean823

mommybean

Мама двоих (5 лет, 9 лет)

@shadesofcool01,

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sandycheeks

sandra usher

Мама двоих (2 года, 3 года)

it looks like the famous evap. I've had so many especially with those tests! its not thick like the other line and the test looks old. I think it may just be stress or something.

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mommyofanamarie

Alexa Guzman

honey look for a planned parent hood clinic they do test for u honey nd u can be late do to stress to doll if anything message me i know how tough it is to have this fear

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rennysmommy

allysha Hollander

Мама сына (1 год)

@sandycheeks, she said the line showed up right away though so I don't think evap.. That's if she looked at it after 10 minutes and she said she didn't. I told her take another 😊

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sandycheeks

sandra usher

Мама двоих (2 года, 3 года)

yes but that lime doesn't look like a positive. the test looks old. if it were positive it would be as thick as the control line just really light if it were early in pregnancy. but she will see when she takes another. @rennysmommy I've spoken to her already

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mommyofdoubletrouble

Xianna

Мама сына (1 год), беременна (39 нед.)

regardless of what ANYONE is saying they dont know for sure so i would get another test in about 2 weeks if your period still hasnt come. just because they are telling you one thing doesnt mean they are right and just cause they have had a whole shit load of evaps doesnt mean thats whats happening to you. you could just be a littke to early and the test isnt picking up your hcg levels just yet. ive had a test like this at 4 weeks with my first son. i wish you luck !

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kmechellec

Kimberly Crutcher

Get to a clinic. They're free & confidential.

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