I just want to cry. I'm in agony with my pelvis, feel my OH doesn't care. I've felt this all…
I just want to cry. I'm in agony with my pelvis, feel my OH doesn't care. I've felt this all throughout my pregnancy so far. He never talks about baby, I suggest names he's like nahhhh, when baba moves I grab his hand and put it on to where he kicked and all I get is 'ffs man' I'm sorry for whining but can't do it in social media for obvious reasons. I am starting to wonder if having this baby was the best idea for him. It's all I've wanted in life and more but I'm so scared that I'm in this on my own. 😭
Ashleigh 🎄🎅🏻·
Мама дочки-младенца
Men sometimes find it hard to get there head around what's happening when their girlfriend is pregnant... Hopefully he'll sort himself out when your baby is born xxx
Kathryn 💋💉·
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I really hope so @daisysmummy as I'm finding it hard myself as I have had the shittest pregnancy ever xx
Rachel·
Мама двоих (младенец)
Men find it hard in general around the whole pregnancy thing, think it's cause they don't have the same bond as we do cause we are carrying and they don't seem to know what to do. my oh didn't really pay much attention during my whole 2nd pregnancy but when I needed him or struggling he was there to help and was brilliant when I had non labour pains nearer end and he rang hospital and was there for me. I know it's not all men but some men do just find it hard and hard to bond with baby. I'm sure your oh will be different when your baby arrives. keep your chin up and don't think too much into it he might start getting involved soon. @mummy2be2016 xx
Kathryn 💋💉·
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@rach0402, thanks for advice Mrs. It's just horrible feeling u are doing it alone. Xx
Rachel·
Мама двоих (младенец)
@mummy2be2016, I totally understand you it does feel like your going it alone juggling the morning sickness, the weird pains and growing belly it's a strange feeling especially first time round. I felt quite alone but my oh works bloody hard so if I could do it, I got on with it and only asked for help when needed. I did try and include him in kicks and stuff and he did feel and see it a few times but then that's enough for him, cause they feel it's just seeing the same thing. In my eyes/opinion I think as long as they have seen and felt baby moving atleast once that makes me happy that they haven't completely not been interested and you have made them involved for that moment. Some ladies might disagree with me but some men just aren't that into it, I understand they were there to make it but as long as they change and do the best by you and baby through pregnancy and especially when it's arrived that's all that matters. sorry for the long text. xx
Kathryn 💋💉·
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@rach0402, no don't b sorry it's what im needing to hear im probs just over thinking. I'm just awful fed up now. @littleelf85 maybe that is right then 🙄xxx
Rachel·
Мама двоих (младенец)
@mummy2be2016, you probably are over thinking but when your pregnant it's so easy to over think things cause your not feeling your normal self I found myself doing but just take a steps back and try not too. as long as you have tried with your oh that's all that matters. That is 100% true @littleelf85 xx