i need HONEST opinions. is it stupid or selfish of me to get annoyed or mad that my in laws always carry MY baby when…

not selfish at all. especially not at the beginning. that's your baby. my son is almost 2, and i still get max when someone else holds his hand

that's their time with their grandbaby let them have it you have all the time in the world you're the mom they have limited time

@allyk.xmommy, two years old?

@mommaofmrkj2014, yeah you're right. that's what I needed to hear but its so hard being selfless when it comes to my baby. 💔😩 thank u

@mommytomia_ you're welcome just see it as a break that u can get

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@mommaofmrkj2014, very true. I think by my second baby I will be asking them to take the babies HAHA

@mommytomia_ probably!!

@mommytomia_, yea. he will be 2 years old in feb. lol when he was a newborn and my sister or mother was with my, they wanted to carry him, or push the cart. I hovered the entire time. I wanted to take him back. now he is almost 2 years old and i only want him holding my hand lol

Ive struggled with this with my inlaws. I feel so weird just standing around while they're the ones who are experiencing everything with my daughter. We lived with them the first year to so the boundaries were never set between them so they feel entitled to her. I've just learned that the experiences I want to make sure to be apart of with her I take her or ask her to come to me for them. She's two also. It's really uncomfortable me asking for my own kid back😁 but your the mom and they already had these moments with their kids so they should respect that you want the same thing with your child.

Just enjoy the free time. Relax spend time w the mister and let them enjoy the baby. I never had my baby when she was little. She's six and they still get her more than I do when we go out. Be glad they want to be with the baby :)

@lexilou_p, @leahsmommi Thank you Ladies. 💕❤ Very good points !

Lol giiirrlllllll. My MIL is obsessed with her grand child. She carries him... Has him on the stroller, wants to comfort him when he cries. I mean, it's good sometimes because it gives me a break too. I use to get more annoyed/ angry when I didn't like her, but I live with her so ive grown to like her as a person. Ever since then I've felt no anger towards her when she wants to do things for him. I know she loves him, and my son loves her too. The more love the merrier. It could be that maybe you don't like your in laws like I once did lol

@mombie2be, thanks so much for your reply love. that totally makes sense & I'll try to be more like you. ❤😍

It can get annoying. However, I say appreciate it. My in laws don't seem to give a fuck about my son and it's heartbreaking. Especially when we live with his (SO) mom. 🙄

@orionsmomma, oh wow. I'm sorry to hear that. I will, thank u