I have a low tolerance of pain so I’m screwed either way 😂 but I am going to get through a natural birth no matter what! Quick question: Are the contractions or pushing the most painful? I’ve felt contractions with my first and omg. But I didn’t experience the pushing. He was way to tiny.
I honestly can't wait for the intense pain of contractions, to go in labor and have my husband by my side each step of the way, finally pushing our daughter out info the world just the thought just makes me so emotional and excited I CAN'T WAIT FOR SEPTEMBER ,
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
I hope this works 😢 This prodromal labor and these contractions aren't working for me http://www.livestrong.com/article/420676-exercises-with-an-exercise-ball-to-help-induce-labor/
My baby was well known in the Labor and delivery section for 3 days! Because I made no progress dialating. They used cervidil that softens your cervix for 12 hours (no progress) They gave me a oral pill to help start contractions and dialate ( no progress), they inserted a balloon into my cervix to open it up and even gave me a dose of pitocin (this immediately, had me contracting loke crazy! (I ended up being 4cm dialated. After taking the balloon out they just used pitocin at the highest level....(i stayed at 4cm dialated). Next step since I made no progress was to restart pitocin again (still no progress) I then ended up having to go against my birth plan and have them break my water, as soon as they broke my water, I requested my epidural before pain got to unbearable. Soon they checked me and told me I was fully dialed but wasnt all the way effaced, and baby wasnt facing the right direction. AFTER 32 hours of labor, 2 hours of pushing, I'm not the one to give up but I know when to back down, when I've lost a battle. i had ended up getting a fever of 102 that they had to treat me for while pushing . I seen I had made no progress of pushing.....my baby was only 4 pounds and I still couldn't push him out. Doctors and nurses gave me 2 options.....c section or restart your pitocin to see if contractions will push him down more. It took me 2 seconds to answer, and I went against my birth plan a 2nd time..... C-section! They began to get me ready. And added more meds to numb me. I felt the tugging and pulling (normal). They finally got this little tiny baby out, even though they even had a hard time. Then I felt PAIN! I began to cry in agony. As they rushed to give me meds to put me to sleep. End result, due to breaking my water and waiting around i ended up having a infection, baby had a scrape on head from hitting my pelvis bone.... not only that, but caring a 4lbs baby was all my body could make....my pelvis was way too small for me to even push my 4lbs little boy out. But guess what hes 4 pounds, Full Term and healthy. !
