if my back is killing me that it hurts to sit should I go to the ER?

if it's unbarable then just call ur ob hun. if it's that bad, yea, go get it checked out at er

you gotta relax hunny. which ik is better said than done. it'll help

@allyk.xmommy I even lay down and it hurts, she just told me to relax;/

With my first I only felt horrible back pain I never felt anything in the front I went into labor and delivery and I was contracting labor pain is different for everyone.

@savanahr777 my mother in law says it's good that is back pain contractions and just to relax.... my back was killing me all day yesterday and night; (

@marcial_naomi, oh! I didn't have back labor. call your on call ob. see what she says. or just got to labor&delivery; and get checked. if you call your ob, and u have to wait for a call back, get everything ready just invade then take a warm showet, let it hit where it hurts, then get going :) keep us updated

@allyk.xmommy I will be doing that. I even have my bag ready. I know not everyone's water breaks so my husband said not to wait on that because I am almost 39wks

I was 39 weeks on the dot. woke up at 5am with contractions. my water didn't break till i was 9cm dilated. they wanted to break it at 6cm. good luck!

@allyk.xmommy thank you for the help