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Bonnie
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My baby boy is a little over 10 months old. I'm currently planning his first birthday party! But I have a question. My fiancé's family didn't come to my baby shower because they wouldn't RSVP & when I asked my BIL he gave me an attitude & had been telling his kids they weren't going. My son was just baptized 2 wks ago. Again no RSVP even though I told them how important it was. My fiancé kept saying "they're coming" well they show up to the church late & then stay outside the whole time. When it was time to go to the restaurant where I had ordered food & rented a room, they all said they had to stay home because the great grandmother has diabetes. 9 people didn't show to his party to sit home & watch her blood sugar. She wasn't sick. I just found out they told the kids they didn't come because they'd have to stand up at the restaurant & I didn't have room for them. Untrue. How many times to I allow them to burn me? What do I do about his party?
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bonniesue

@mommyofdoubletrouble, they're very rude people. They called my sister stupid because they couldn't figure out babies r us website when it came to my baby shower invite. And then they didn't even acknowledge when I handed them the baptism invite. I think I may try this last time.

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bonniesue

@mommyofdoubletrouble, they're very rude people. They called my sister stupid because they couldn't figure out babies r us website when it came to my baby shower invite. And then they didn't even acknowledge when I handed them the baptism invite. I think I may try this last time.

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mommyofdoubletrouble

i wouldnt bother & if they try to belittle you all you have to do is mention about the previous times you had and they did what they did.

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valrocks

If they refuse to rsvp and still show up then tell them that's what the rsvp is for. Some of my husbands family waited till the last possible day and I had to call them out on it.

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bonniesue

Thank you @valrocks. I just don't know what to do if they still refuse to RSVP. I am having his birthday at a place so it costs me money 😞

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valrocks

I would invite them just to be the bigger person but don't count on them coming. Always do the right thing. If they want to act like assholes then that's on them.

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