Never been so hurt in my life.. Please tell me if I'm wrong for this , mom got upset because she payed for my baby shower by herself with no help , my baby father mother didn't ask not once, I told him how I feel and he goes well my mom don't have money she has bills to pay 🙄 so I said well so does my mom ! But I'm not complain , but yet his mother brought him a stroller & car seat but hasn't brought my son not ONE thing 🤔! His family begged to be invited to the baby shower but NOONE showed up ! Not even his mom and grandma ! My family & friends came and I thank them for coming ! If it wasn't for my mom , family & friends my so wouldn't have the stuff he has now ! But I'm the bad person 🤔🤔 .. Now tell me is it wrong that I'm falling out of love with him 😔 that I'm better off a single mother because I do for him without asking him for help ! & btw his mother only saw my son ONE time since he been born but that's okay I'm not stressing it ! They treated my baby father daughter better then my son but it's cool ! IF IM WRONG PLEASE ME KNOW
It's okay it is his loss my baby daddy of my oldest daughter and this baby I am carrying said he would raise her and do the whole 9 yards
yep told him not to sign the birth certificate until he got a DNA so I did one even better made sure he was not at the hospital while I was there giving birth or anything
yep told him not to sign the birth certificate until he got a DNA so I did one even better made sure he was not at the hospital while I was there giving birth or anything
Yeah his family does not like me but i don't care they keep trying to say my daughter ain't his
you are not wrong. they sound ungrateful and inconsiderate people.
been there left my husband and he does not understand why I left
He didn't stick up for me he stuck up for his mom and then he gets mad when i don't spend the night and my mom told him , you having not at your house for him and she's not bringing anything there so no they not spending the night with you @alliecat_
no! if anybody is being selfish, its his family and him too. he could at least stick up for you and do what needs to be done. and if they wanna act like they care but their actions are different then don't feel about cutting everyone off. its what's bet for you and you child. not their feelings.
you're definitely not wrong for feeling the way you do.
Trigger. Lost baby
Went in for my 20 week check up and found out our son had passed away. Nothing was wrong, my pregnancy has been going great. I'm so numb right now. I'll he delivering him later this week. I don't want to do this. I don't want to do this. Not before Christmas. How am I'm going to tell my kids?? My dear sweet baby boy. Why did this happen?
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
so my boyfriend and I live with his parents with out almost 2 week old son... his parents and his mom always want to hold him like all day everyday and get mad when I take him upstairs in our room... I'm not breast feeding... my question is with me not breastfeeding and his mom constantly holding him will he know I'm his mom? that's my biggest fear... my son not knowing who I am and thinking she's his mom.
Honest opinion am I overreacting....so my mother in law and sister in law didn't call my son on his birthday on Wednesday. Yet they knew it was his 2nd birthday. I was so upset and hurt because we've lived with them so I considered them like my actual family. My mom threw a surprise party for my son that night it was literally only my sister,brother,mom and aunt and one of my friends and of course us. Well my mom decided to go fb live with us singing happy birthday. My mother in law comments t...
@itsamemario, you deleted your post before I could hit send but this is my comment: I don’t know if this answers your question but this is my answer.
My son is 7 and he knows race and color. Why? Because he himself comes from a family that is multi racial and because he has already experienced racism. I also believe as his mother it’s my job to teach him color and the cold hard truth about society. He knows what’s going on in this world. I’d be hurting him if I allowed him to blindly walk out...
my own family didn't show up for my sons first birthday party, or my baby shower my sister who was there when i had him has only seen him maybe 5 times maybe ...ignore the ignorance do you and your baby and I'd be just like you if my husband thought everything was cool that your mom did it all..my husband paid for all of our parties no help