Trigger. Lost baby Went in for my 20 week check up and found out our son had passed away. Nothing was wrong, my pregnancy has been going great. I'm so numb right now. I'll he delivering him later this week. I don't want to do this. I don't want to do this. Not before Christmas. How am I'm going to tell my kids?? My dear sweet baby boy. Why did this happen?
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
so my boyfriend and I live with his parents with out almost 2 week old son... his parents and his mom always want to hold him like all day everyday and get mad when I take him upstairs in our room... I'm not breast feeding... my question is with me not breastfeeding and his mom constantly holding him will he know I'm his mom? that's my biggest fear... my son not knowing who I am and thinking she's his mom.
Honest opinion am I overreacting....so my mother in law and sister in law didn't call my son on his birthday on Wednesday. Yet they knew it was his 2nd birthday. I was so upset and hurt because we've lived with them so I considered them like my actual family. My mom threw a surprise party for my son that night it was literally only my sister,brother,mom and aunt and one of my friends and of course us. Well my mom decided to go fb live with us singing happy birthday. My mother in law comments that why didn't we tell her anything so I tell my mom if she really cared she would've called him to say something.Even family members that I don't talk to often messaged him a video singing to him! So the next day I receive a message from my sister in law asking me why I didn't invite them. I then explained that either of them called to tell him anything. So then she was like well you could've still invited us and then I explained that it wasn't my right to do anything since it was my brother sister and mother throwing it for him! So then I told her that they were more than welcome to throw him anything if they truly wanted to needles to say they were mad because they weren't invited to my son's surprise party. And I apparently should've told them to call my son super frustrating. Well I'm so glad my family loves my son and spoils him they do everything for him so I am truly blessed. Just gets me upset because birthdays are a big deal in my family.
@itsamemario, you deleted your post before I could hit send but this is my comment: I don’t know if this answers your question but this is my answer. My son is 7 and he knows race and color. Why? Because he himself comes from a family that is multi racial and because he has already experienced racism. I also believe as his mother it’s my job to teach him color and the cold hard truth about society. He knows what’s going on in this world. I’d be hurting him if I allowed him to blindly walk outside without this information. Children of color are being targeted and killed too. It’s not just adults. I let my son know we treat everyone equally and with respect. I let him know that we love everyone for their differences. In every aspect. Color, race, ethnicity, religion, sexual preference we love everyone.
Dounia Gregorio·
Мама сына (1 год)
my own family didn't show up for my sons first birthday party, or my baby shower my sister who was there when i had him has only seen him maybe 5 times maybe ...ignore the ignorance do you and your baby and I'd be just like you if my husband thought everything was cool that your mom did it all..my husband paid for all of our parties no help
Kimberly·
Мама троих детей
It's okay it is his loss my baby daddy of my oldest daughter and this baby I am carrying said he would raise her and do the whole 9 yards
jasmine·
Мама сына-младенца
He should feel stupid @kimborocks93
Kimberly·
Мама троих детей
yep told him not to sign the birth certificate until he got a DNA so I did one even better made sure he was not at the hospital while I was there giving birth or anything
Kimberly·
Мама троих детей
yep told him not to sign the birth certificate until he got a DNA so I did one even better made sure he was not at the hospital while I was there giving birth or anything
jasmine·
Мама сына-младенца
They just mad , @kimborocks93
Kimberly·
Мама троих детей
Yeah his family does not like me but i don't care they keep trying to say my daughter ain't his
jasmine·
Мама сына-младенца
I'm glad I didn't marry him yet @kimborocks93
jasmine·
Мама сына-младенца
Thank you ! I said that to him no ctobermom14
octobermom14·
Мама сына-младенца
you are not wrong. they sound ungrateful and inconsiderate people.
Kimberly·
Мама троих детей
been there left my husband and he does not understand why I left
jasmine·
Мама сына-младенца
Good cause sometimes I feel Like I am @kimborocks93
jasmine·
Мама сына-младенца
He didn't stick up for me he stuck up for his mom and then he gets mad when i don't spend the night and my mom told him , you having not at your house for him and she's not bringing anything there so no they not spending the night with you @alliecat_
Kimberly·
Мама троих детей
girl ur not in the wrong at all
Allie·
Мама дочки (1 год), беременна (17 нед.)
no! if anybody is being selfish, its his family and him too. he could at least stick up for you and do what needs to be done. and if they wanna act like they care but their actions are different then don't feel about cutting everyone off. its what's bet for you and you child. not their feelings.
jasmine·
Мама сына-младенца
I get told I'm being selfish @alliecat_
Allie·
Мама дочки (1 год), беременна (17 нед.)
you're definitely not wrong for feeling the way you do.