Are there any single mummy's that give me some advice please What's a reasonable amount of time a week you thinks acceptable to let the father have there baby (mines 6mths) or children. Obviously it's morally right to let the father have them but it's bloody hard as I didn't make the decision to be apart from my son and it's forced upon me. That's what pisses me off about a father leaving is that u have to share your child when it wasn't your damn choice too. Sorry for the little vent at the end but would greatly appreciate advice on how you "share" your children x