Ya I agree as well @phinnybinz

Ya me to @sandycheeks

Yeah, my sister experienced multiple losses and I was the only person she ever told when she got a positive. I know everyone handles it differently, but it's got to take its toll on her loved ones when she does this. Eventually no one will believe her which will be a really tough day when she is pregnant. All this stress she's putting herself through cant be helping it happen any quicker either... @sandycheeks @countrymama121

yeah. I think she needs some help just for her own sanity because that's not healthy to be faking and doing what she's doing. that sucks tho. I hope she gets some help to cope. @countrymama121

Ya nothing she is messaging me right now makes any sense if your levels arnt high enough at 10 weeks they would detect something wrong with the baby on ultrasound like misscarriage like they did for me with my first baby which was a missed misscarriage before I had my 4 year old daughter @sandycheeks

@sandycheeks, @phinnybinz she's confusing me she said the doctor said for 10 weeks her levels arnt were there supposed to be but she got a ultrasound at the ER last week and they said the baby is fine , so idk why she took a ovulation test or asking if it's okay then if the ultrasound confirmed everything was fine with the baby

thats sad. she's hurting herself more. no doctor will let her go without an early ultrasound especially with her history. and if her levels are low when she should be 10 weeks that could indicate a miscarriage. I think she is making things up😕 @countrymama121

I've already suggested that because it's helped me a lot to speak to my therapist about the loss of my daughter but I guess she is dealing with it her own way but it might not be the healthiest @phinnybinz

@phinnybinz,

I mean it Deff has but not enough to fake a pregnancy I mean I lost my daughter at 21 week because the cord was wrapped around her neck and have been trying after the doctor gave the go ahead but I would never fake a pregnancy , I just think it's weird to take a ovulation test if you already got a positive pregnancy test and she just messaged me saying the doctor said her levels arnt Hugh enough for being 10 weeks along but if that were the case the doctor would do a ultrasound to see how big the baby is and check for a heartbeat I've always gotten a ultrasound around 6 to 8 weeks along @sandycheeks

it definitely does. but I always just kept testing at home hoping I was but never told anyone or did what she's doing. then again her situation was worse she was way further along.

Oi...Do you think you're close enough to her to maybe suggest talking to someone? I can't even begin to fathom what you ladies who've had a loss have gone through. It's got to take its toll mentally. @countrymama121

never mind I found it lol @countrymama121

@countrymama121,

probably so! if she already got a positive test why would she take a pregnancy test. what's her fb?

So today she sent me a fb message asking if it's a good thing if there is a faint line on a ovulation test , but if she is pregnant why would she be taking a ovulation test so I guess she might be faking it @sandycheeks @phinnybinz

Ya I have no idea she hasn't posted any ultrasound pics or anything on fb so we will see @sandycheeks @phinnybinz

yes! that'd why I went to her profile to see if she got a confirmed pregnancy but saw she was banned. I thought they only ban fake profiles or drama people. but anyways. lol @countrymama121 @phinnybinz

@countrymama121, I'm glad for her if that's the case. I know people definitely get super excited when people finally get that positive (especially those mums who are waiting for their rainbow baby). We all wish her the best ☺️

I mean she even told me on fb on my post about waiting on my rainbow that it took her 4 months after loosing her daughter to get pregnant again and that I needed to be patient for mine @sandycheeks

Ya cause I saw the post and even her friends wrote on her wall yay our babies will grow up together so she Deff has been telling people she is @sandycheeks

maybe this time she is👣 @countrymama121

I'm friends with her on fb and she made a announcement on there so all her friends and family know she is pregnant , so I really am not sure if she is or not but I don't think she would tell her husband she is or family if she wasn't because she would have to have proof at some point like a belly growing or ultrasound pic it's really confusing

@chinue, Which moderator were you having an issue with yesterday? We are new and working things out. I agree that honesty is always best and keeping it real with people. I just don't like when that turns into an argument. I've gotten into my fair share of disputes on here too lol.

@phinnybinz, there needs to be a training class or session for these moderators.. I had one yesterday in my inbox with foolishness. going back in forth, I have a strict don't come for me policy.. I rather preggie continue to contact me if moderators are gonna act like that.

I had scrolled passed a few times, but what I can't stand is people condoning falsehood.. Lol hyping that girl up instead of being honest.. honesty isn't drama simply because you don't like the truth..

Agreed. And, yeah, the best way to handle that would have been to complain about her or message preggie. We are big on keeping the peace and trying out some new things with the new moderators to get to a more positive, drama free environment. I didn't see your "bully" posts, but there were definitely times I had to just keep my mouth shut and keep scrolling lol. That's not always easy for me 😂😂 @chinue

@phinnybinz, @sandycheeks I kept it real just like that on her post in a non attacking manner to her and got blocked and messaged from preggie.. it's another one on here but I'm a "bully" for being honest

agreed @chinue

she needed to go talk to someone to be honest.. she's not coping well after losing her baby, who could our would? but the lies and inconsistency and fake/old test obsession was a cause for concern.. I hope she seeks counseling or a support group asap!

definitely @phinnybinz @mommytobe0703

The part about her account that was strange to me is that she would be due to test every two weeks. And every two weeks she'd get her "positive" and change her status, then go to the doctor and it would be confirmed negative - start the cycle again because she "tested early". I can't imagine going through a loss like she did. And I really hope she gets the help she needs and talks to someone. @guaderrama_babies2 @mommytobe0703 @sandycheeks

yes@guaderrama_babies2 @mommytobe0703 I hope she does get her positive tho. I couldn't imagine losing one that far along.

@sandycheeks, I feel bad for her. I though the same thong for a while. She even told me not to get too excited even after getting my confirmation to wait till I got a better ultrasound because my first one was at 5 weeks. Well I hope she gets help.

yes very weird. I was thinking she was putting up tests that weren't hers or something because she wanted to be pregnant so bad. 😕 idk. I know the feeling but I wouldn't put up test that weren't mine or if I wasn't getting positives and really not knowing if I was pregnant or not. really weird. @guaderrama_babies2

@sandycheeks, to me something was always off about her profile. How was she getting those positive tests if her daughter passed a while back. She would always discourage people and say that the pregnancy tests were false. She told me when I got my positive that it was false because she got a false positive on like 4 of the first response tests. Then she said she got an ultrasound too and never put up a picture. She said she did get it confirmed by a doctor but she was half the weeks she said she was. That whole deleting her posts was weird too.

yeah I know she had lost her baby previously and been trying to get pregnant. I think she kept testing too soon and getting a positive still from the miscarriage. but she would post positive tests then delete all her post and week later say she was going to take a test to see if she was pregnant then delete it again. idk😐 I was wondering cause I just went to see if she ever went to doc to see if she was pregnant again. but she's banned now. ....@guaderrama_babies2,

IDK they sent me a message asking if I found it weird that she was pregnant one week then the next not and how she got ultrasounds and never posted pictures. Peggie was asking about her profile for a while.