So can I be just a little jealous my boyfriend got a 3D ultrasound with his first but not our baby ?…

Definitely ok to be jealous. My so called husband did a bunch of shit for his first and still does but, when I want to do it for ours he acts like it's such an inconvenience.

@1sttimemummy, okay good because I felt bad for being jealous. And he was the same way for his first !

Mine always makes me feel like shit for getting upset about it like I'm not accepting his daughter as my step daughter but, he doesn't realize like even though I do accept her, this is still my first child that I've carried.

@1sttimemummy, I don't even bring it up. Cause it'll just start a fight. They went all out for his son while my daughter gets like bare minimal. It makes me sad because it's my first. Child too. :/

I would personally bring it up even if it's going to start a fight. You're fighting for your baby to get equal treatment. She can't fight for herself so you have to. That's how I personally see it.

@1sttimemummy, I just do as much as I can for her. And I'm tired of fighting with him over everything. It's same stuff a different day you know ?

I get it :/ I'm in the same boat. I just use all of my money for my daughter because he spends all of his on his daughter and his jeep. He hasn't helped with our daughter at all. His family has though and I do appreciate that very much.

@1sttimemummy, he's had to buy our daughter stuff because I couldn't work due to having hypermesis. But everything we got was the cheapest. If I were working I would have bought so much different items. I.e.:we only have diapers because my fried bought 4 packs. I could only get mam bottles because that's what his son liked. Even though I picked a different kind