I really don't think it's necessary for me to have to ask you to help me out at the point. Our…

Don't you feel terrible for the baby? Like when my husband gets lazy with my son and I have to go to work I get furious with him and feel so bad for my son who has to deal with it

Same here. That's a big reason I didn't want to go back to work cause he used to get really irritated with her easily and like you said will get lazy. It frustrates the hell out of me. @edomke

Well he doesn't do it anymore but I think it has to do with their maturing. He kind of really stopped when one time I took Patrick to my inlaws because I was pissed lol then he got his ass handed to him

He stepped up for a while but now he's slacking again and it's mainly since I've been back to work. I mean on top of it I've been sick for almost 2 weeks and could use the extra help but oh wells. @edomke

I told my SO if I won't be sleeping neither will you! And I will bet my life you won't because I didn't make this baby by myself so you will have share in parenting as well sooo I suggest you wrap your mind around it now before she gets here!

Mom will always have to do it my husband was only 20 when he was doing this and now he is better but I feel moms will always do most of the work. Hang in there and @mskiera15 I mean I told my husband that stuff but it's different when the baby is actually here . He's defiantly stepped up now though

I don't care what anyone says dad's do not have that true instinct like moms do and never will unless they are thrown into the situation without their wife and they have the kids that's a whole different story

They really don't. We are both still young. Both 19 fixing to be 20 but still, you'd just think they would realize hey she needs help@edomke

It's hard to transition, I know. Just remember that he is transitioning too, and try to help him!