I text the health visitor and asked to reschedule today's appointment, I barely slept last night and…

They wouldn't judge you just cause your place is abit messy. I hated mine coming round cause my flat wasn't as clean as it usually is but who cares you can't get everything done with a newborn and they know that. @daisysmummy xx

@rach0402, she does judge though because she's mentioned it before :/ we live in a studio flat so it's really difficult to keep the place tidy and not looking cluttered and she just doesn't understand that and keeps telling me to sort it out and throw away what we don't need and "clear the floor" when we don't have hardly any storage xx

oh really that's awful she shouldn't be doing that I would make a complaint about her, it's none of her business unless you were infested with animals which clearly sounds like you are not and just struggling for space. I understand how it feels luckily I do have a couple of cupboards but struggling for space now with 2 children. I don't blame you for cancelling. can you not reschedule and maybe do it at someone else's house? @daisysmummy xx

It's there job to check everything and unfortunately they literally check everything! Mine even checked my bathroom, why my newborn would be using my toilet I have no idea. 😂😂 but they look for signs people aren't coping or a child's I'm danger. I wouldn't panic about alittle disorganisation but I would tidy before having a visit from any health care professional, they do judge but they are paid to xx

@rach0402, @stacey804 I rescheduled for next week :) that gives me enough time to get a bit more organised and she won't judge me anymore 😂